anyone else get really painful pain here on their period.
I have been for years - I don’t see how it can’t be related to my cycle when it comes with every period like clockwork.
But when I’ve had scans etc for gynae pain and heavy periods I’ve been told the two things aren’t related.
I’m a little unsure what to do. I have read and read and read on endo - changed my whole lifestyle around, even began studying health at masters level to understand more and I do feel I have that pain under control now. Yes, I still need painkillers and hot water bottle and at least one day is a bit of a write off. But it’s nothing like what it was - from my first period - excruciating pain - now, in that area of my body, I can cope. I had two ops to remove some, many years ago, I don’t want to have any more ops unless it becomes unmanageable.
However, the side pain - like gallbladder/liver area is upending my life - I’ve just had to quit another agency job because of it, I couldn’t be reliable enough ,on my last full time job I was on my last warning. I’ve created a very small life with minimal responsibilities so that I don’t have as many to fail at. I don’t have much money but get by. But this pain is too much. I’m lucky if ibruprofen, paracetamol and codeine together take the edge off. Otherwise it’s about 4 days of agony. Laid in bed, contorting into positions, crying, hovering over going to A and E but talking myself out of it because of the thought of feeling that way for hours in the waiting room. It’s always pain in the same exact place, it’s very predictable. And it affects the rest of my life. I’m always tired and drained. I’m always dreading it coming round again. Or obsessing over lifestyle tips that I read that could potentially help.
The doctors are treating it and my gynae issues as unrelated, so I just had scans on the upper right and nothing showed.
I have another scan coming up for my uterus etc. The last option I was given regarding that was that next step would be laparoscopy and removal of any endo if there. Them Covid happened and it didn’t go ahead. Which I’m glad of I think. I’m not sure I want to have another op. But if it gets rid of the upper right pain then I do want to. But since they are saying it is unrelated and conclusion is that nothing can be seen to be wrong in that area on scans - I feel as though I may end up having an op that won’t remove the pain that’s actually causing me the most grief.
sorry for this essay. I’m just kinda hoping that someone else has had similar experience or of anyone has any ideas or suggestions.
the best image I can give to describe the pain is like if you twist up a tshirt really tight in your hands - it’s a pressure pain - like something could burst - it’s only (and always) when I have my period. It doesn’t respond to painkillers. Even when the pain edge sometimes gets taken off I can still clearly feel that pressure.
Thanks in advance and sending all you ladies suffering a lot of love. Endo is a hard thing to deal with and I feel that I get off lightly compared to others.