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He’s home! Hurrah!

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After 7 weeks in hospital my husband is home.

Initially they were treating him for an infection and no antibiotics were touching it. It was only when they got the bone marrow culture showing Hodgkins transformation that he turned a corner. The ABVD chemo was a game changer. He had two chemos in hospital and will now have them has an outpatient. He enjoyed his first night at home in his own bed and we celebrated with fish and chips and Prosecco (we know how to live 😀).

He is very weak and will need to rebuild his strength. He has lost a lot of weight. He has set himself a target for today of shaving off the beard that has grown over the last 7 weeks (he doesn’t normally have a beard). At the weekend he is having his hair cut very short so that he can manage it when it falls out with the chemo (this set of drugs will cause hair loss).

Apparently the RT transformation to Hodgkins is even less common than the transformation to non-Hodgkins. His consultant has said he has plenty of other things he can use if the chemo doesn’t work (it seems to be working at the moment). He also warned us about reading anything more than 1-2 years old as there have been significant developments.

So a happy day here - even the doctors admitted that initially they thought he would not be coming home. There were some very scary moments at times.

Thank you all for your kind messages and care.

Berylx

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Newdawn profile image
NewdawnAdministrator

Such good news Beryl and I bet those fish ‘n chips and a glass of Prosecco together were like the feast of all feasts! 😊 That and our own bed is the best Christmas present possible.

It’s been a hard, long slog for you both but I’m glad he has an attentive medical team and the cause is being addressed.

Best wishes going forward.

Newdawn

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Poodle2

Beryl, that's amazing news! So happy for both of you.

When I was having my second Obinutuzumab infusion, I met a very young girl who was going through ABVD for Hodgkins, it seemed very harsh, it was giving her a lot of nausea and she had lost her hair by then so I can only begin to imagine how your husband must be feeling...but when we spoke about her cancer, it seemed the treatment can be harsh but very effective at eradicating the cancer.

Hope you have a great day and keep on finding joy in the little things ❤️

Petra

Oh Beryl you must be so happy to have him home. Now he can start proper recovery.

God is good and answered all our prayer.

Take care and stay safe both of you.

The fish and chips along with the bubbles sound just perfect xx

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Walkingtall62

This is lovely news to wake up to.p (in a way). I wish you and your husband all the very best. What a ride you have been on, but to be rewarded, at this stage, with fish, chips and Prosecco has to be a little icing in the cake! Hubby certainly seems to be on the ball to take his beard off already. Will need more f&c’s after that! All the very best xxx

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PaulaSVolunteer

Great news, Beryl. What a relief! Thanks for sharing.

Wishing all the best for his continuing treatment,

Paula x

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terryI_uk

Glad he's home Beryl, no better place to be, especially with fish and chips and prosecco, God bless, Terry

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Fran57

Such good news Beryl!

Now try to relax a little , if you can.

Thinking of you,

Fran 🤗

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jabee

Such wonderful news for you both Beryl, I am sure he will come on leaps and bounds now he’s home.

Very best wishes to you both,

Jackie

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Ginajetta

Happy to hear this good news. So wonderful he is at home. Wising you both the best.

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Feelsolow

Sending love and best wishes x

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mrsjsmith

Great news Beryl

How fabulous having fish and chips. My local chippy sadly closed down a couple of years ago.

And get more 🥂 in to keep celebrating.

Colette

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CycleWonder

So glad to hear he’s home. May his recovery be smooth. Give yourself a big hug.

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SofiaDeo

What wonderful news, yay!

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cllady01Former Volunteer

Beryl, So glad to hear he is home and I would love to have some fish and chips!

There are places to get fried fish here, but i don't think there is a place for the authentic fish and chips. Good eating (if not healthiest) is a gift anyone deserves for homecoming.

May the continued treatment be successful and his strength be regained being home and in your care. Blessings on you both as you work together for his recovery and healing.

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Panz

Oh, thank you so much for sharing your great news!!! It is super he has turned the corner….it has been a very long haul for both of you! Thanks to so many great meds and to have access to them is priceless!!!

Panz 💕🙏🙂👍🌈☘️

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Wroxham

So pleased to hear this Beryl. Every good with for the rest of treatment.Sue

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Analeese

So glad to hear your good news that you have a diagnosis. It’s great that the doctors feel there is a treatment and that it works well. Fish and chips and proscetto sounds like a wonderful celebration to me. I made a wonderful pumpkin cheesecake and a carrot cake to take for Thanksgiving. And the next day we were treated to lobster tail. Food does help make us feel better. But sadly I need to get off the sweets and the rich food.

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Peggy4

Fantastic news. Perfect way to celebrate!

Peggy

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Stamphappy

So happy to hear your hubby is home with you!! Wishing you both a blessed holiday season and a smoother kinder 2023 full of promise and hope.

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