I have not been on here for such a long time and I feel very guilty that I have not been. This may be my last post though as I am beyond sad. I have almost no mobility now which makes it worse.
On 10 12 2020 my boy left me. He was my reason to wake up and to smile and now he is gone.
I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. I remember all too well the heartbreak of losing a beloved pet and it hurts like hell. I know your mobility isn't good, but having people to talk to when you're feeling sad can help. I always enjoyed your photos of Fidget and perhaps (when you're ready), sharing your happy memories of him with us or others may help. It may not seem like it now, but there will come a time when you can think of him with a smile rather than sadness.
Thinking of you and sending hugs ❤️
So very sorry to hear what a sad and difficult time you have had. Please keep in touch with people on this site, they will want to be a supportive friend to you at a time like this. Take care of yourself and all the very best wishes to you.
IT is incredibly painful. Been there❤️
don't worry about how active you were in the past. Everyone will want to support you and help you through it at this time.
So sorry to hear about your loss. But always remember that your boy will always be with you in you heart and your memories. We are all here for you so please come and chat to us .buoy be strong I am sure that's what your boy would want, have a good day and think of all the good times take care😊 Bernadette and Jack 🐕 xxxxxx
So sorry to hear about your loss. There are so many here who will understand how devestating it is. We have missed you, do join us whenever you feel comfortable about it. No pressure.Love
Kate xxx
So sorry for your loss. I can well remember how empty the house felt after losing Bess. I try and remember not the loss but the happy memories she left me.
I can understand your terrible sadness but please don't leave us because of it. We can't take away your sorrow but maybe we can keep you company in some small way. Thinking of you 🐑
Hi fidgetandscooter so sorry to hear of your loss. It must be awful for you especially as your mobility is low. Don’t leave us forever just have a rest and come back when you feel able. Not all of us are on here all the time but come back if we have a worry or something we would like to share with everyone or a question on our health. Your boy would not want you to give up on anything and as someone said you have a wealth of memories. Do take care x
Lots of love at this sad time xx❤️❤️❤️
Mans best friend for sure. Sorry he left you and you'll miss him greatly I don't think we ever forget. But life goes on, and i guess like me going out on the scooter is a memory too. By the time the scooter is out of the garage, warm clothes on, you wonder if its worth it. And very few people out and about. Do your best, paint, communicate hope to hear from you soon. Jane
So very sorry to hear your sad news. We’re here for you if you feel the need to talk.
Sending hugs xxxx
I am so sorry for your tragic loss. Please do come back in to chat with us again as soon as you feel able. Kindest regards. John
I am so sorry to hear your very sad news. It’s heartbreaking when your beautiful and loyal pet passes. I do hope you can feel in a better space soon, if just for your lovely boy.
Cx
Sorry to hear your sad news know what it is like take care
I’m so sad for you . Animals leave such a big void when they pass.. have you got a picture of him where you can see it ?
So sad to here of your plight. Whilst things might be difficult and hard now there is always hope. A tall ask but try to smile and look on the bright side.
Just lovely to see you back fidgetandscooter, I'm so sorry to hear your sad news and understand how devastating it is to lose a treasured pet. Many of us here will genuinely empathise. It's 6 years and 3 weeks since I said goodbye to my big chocolate mate Fred but I still feel him & he's still in my ❤. Thinking of you xxx
You have been missed here. Your presence helped others and would do so again no matter how difficult it my be for you just now. It’s now coming up to 3 months since I lost my dog Midge and I almost ground to a halt because of it also. But we know from the beginning that the loss will eventually have to be faced, it was part of the bargain. It has taken me a while to accept this and whilst it hasn’t eased the pain in any way it has enabled me to carry on and fulfil my obligation to my departed friend.
Such sad news. Let yourself grieve for you lost friend but please dont shut people out friends help us remember the happy times with a lost loved one, and help us through the grief. Sending you huggs
I’m really sorry to hear about your loss you will meet again at Rainbow Bridge. It’s a pity our pets don’t live as long as our pets, I have a very old cat I’m dreading the day she goes it will be an end of an era.
Yes, things look bleak and it’s easier to think about things we can’t do rather than the things we can do. But, it does get better as time goes on a cliche I know
Remember it’s always good to talk so please let us know how you are doing.
Love and hugs
J
I’m so sorry to hear your sad news. They come into our lives and give us so much joy and leave us devastated when they go. I hope in time you can look back on the great memories you have and remember them. I’m so sorry to hear about your mobility too but perhaps when the weather gets better you will find ways of getting out. 🤗🤗
Oh my I'm so very sorry for the loss of your boy ..They find such a big place in our hearts and lives and it stays with us for many years after their loss.
Dont leave the site come in for the odd chat and support when you need it always somone around ..
Take care 🧡
So very sorry to hear of the loss of your precious friend. We let them into our hearts and that's where they stay. He will always be there for you in your memories and I hope it will soon get easier for you to relive those memories without the pain. Best wishes Ann
Sorry to hear your news. It is so hard when it is raw. Been there. Thinking of you. Please don’t leave. Just have a break until you feel ready to return. Although with all these lovely messages maybe you will decide not to take a break.......
I’m so sorry to hear that you have lost your beloved Fidget. They just tie strings round your heart don’t they? Just to say I am thinking of you at this difficult time xx
My Heart goes out to you Hun. I lost my Charlie after 15 years, he had only 3 legs, never slowed him down, I have his ashes here, I still Talk to him. They are never gone, We carry them in our Heart forever.💖🐕💖🐕💖 XXX C.
So sorry you've lost you precious boy it's very sad when they leave us and very hard to bear. Love his photo beautiful boy. Please take care thinking of you. Holly 😘 XX
I’m sorry you lost such a great companion 🥲 Please come here anytime you need a chat though! People here just do some of the journey together!
So sorry for your loss. It can be devastating but they do stay in your heart forever and you will be able to think of him with fondness when the grief subsides. You have been missed on the site so please dont leave, just visit when you feel the need. Take care x
I’m so sorry to read your very sad news. Xx
So sorry to hear of your loss.
So so sad to hear of the loss of you best friend, your cute companion Fidget. Please try to think of the lovely time you spent together. It takes a lot of time and a lot of tears to come to terms but I hope you communicate with others as much as you can for support. Have you thought about rescuing another fur baby I.e an older cat for company. I know his place cannot be taken but it may help to have another friend to talk to and care for?
Please keep in touch. You have been missed. Cx
Please keep posting, it helps to talk and the folk on here are caring and good listeners. Thinking of you x
Hi, so sorry to hear this, I lost my darling Rosie just over a year ago and know how devastating it is to lose a beloved friend and companion. I still miss her terribly and have her ashes with me and talk to her every day. We were going to have a little goodbye ceremony with family and bury her ashes in the garden she loved to play in but it hasn’t happened because of covid. It does get easier but I’ll never forget her, she was my sunshine. X
So sorry to hear this sad news, when my little dog passed I was inconsolable, totally understand how you feel. Loved reading your stories and seeing your pictures, hopefully when your up to it, you will share again x x take care x x
So sorry you've lost your doggy friend. That's a lovely photo of him. Hope you're stay on the site where so many people want to look out for you. ( My logo shows my late, much missed Sooty cat- gone but never forgotten.) xxx
So sorry to hear of your loss. They get into your heart and stay there furever.
So very sorry. You have wonderful memories of Fidget and I know in time the hurt will lessen. Please don’t make this your last post 🐞
I'm so very sorry to hear this. You're in my thoughts. Please do stay in touch here- you'll never be short of support. With lots of love. xxx
Such sad news - my deep condolences - but please keep in touch as you need friends more than ever now. Sending love and hugs x
So sorry to hear that your beloved partner and furry friend is no longer with you. It must have left a huge hole in your life. Thinking of you.
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