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Well that is now it, I no longer own a business and will for a, hopefully, short period be a gentleman of leisure whilst the new owner sorts himself out. I already feel like a tiger in a cage, pacing around. This is going to take a while to get used to after 32 years, if ever. The new owner will definitely need my services, knowledge and skills, he spent 3 days working alongside me last week and his lack of experience showed up, a surprise he is only 26, I thought he was in his 30's when he bought it all.

On another note, yesterday I spent the day planning and organising another holiday, yes you have guessed it, we are going back to the Norfolk Broads, sailing again. We have booked the smallest lightest sailing cruiser again, this time hopefully, she will have been repaired, and be fit and ready to sail. This time Sharon and I will be taking our son with us, Michael, who is an experienced sailor, he is a big, fit lad, so he will be able to take a lot of the load from me as opposed to earlier this year. We will be able to sail for a whole day and I will enjoy that immensely. We will be setting off on the 12th October for a week, just 6 weeks away, almost last minute. We were lucky to get a yacht, let alone the smallest one in the fleet, still 10 tons though. We have been in October quite a few times in the past, the biggest issue is condensation at night, inside the accommodation but on the plus side we don't have to worry about mosquitoes. The rivers are also a lot quieter, not as many "stinkies" (motor cruisers) about to get in our way, especially as most "stinkies" do not know that sail has priority over motor.

Here is hoping I can stay fit and well, a bit a gamble, but hey, all of us here face that problem. If we freeze at that thought, none of us would do anything or go anywhere.

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sassy59 profile image
sassy59

I’m sure you’ll be busying yourself helping the new owner of your business 2greys. He’ll certainly need your expertise by the sound of it.,

Enjoy your break on the Broads and I hope everything goes to plan.

Wishing you well. Xxxxxx

Surely sailing is now going to play a major part of your life in the future? You write so well on the subject you nearly had me selling up and buying a boat after reading about your training holiday a couple of years back. Whatever you do will be quietly successful and I wish you all the very best. 🙂👍

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2greys in reply to

My daughter is already looking around locally, to find a hire boat, even an open decker so we can sail to the Isle of Wight for a day. She has inherited my sense of adventure.

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chubby2x22

So pleased you have everything for the near future sorted out. We thought retirement might be boring but lifes what you make it and your well on with exciting things., the days won't be long enough. Enjoy your Sunday and a pint or two. Jane

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2greys in reply to chubby2x22

Yes, I will be doing the 2 1/2 mile walk to the pub, nice and cool for it and dry too. It takes an hour and usually ready for a pint on arrival, after getting my breath back that is. Quite often my first pint is OJ and tonic water, an extremely refreshing combination.

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Yatzy in reply to 2greys

Enjoy your break, 2greys, I look forward to reading about it! You’ve mentioned the OJ and tonic water before, I tried it and have been on it ever since. Yes, extremely refreshing, so thanks for that. Bon voyage, sounds wonderful.

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Hacienda

Morning to you 2 Gs on this cool Sunny Sunday. Well it's all wrapped up now, and your ready to leave it for a Great planned Holiday, You so Deserve it. Onwards for the Future from now on. Take Care. Enjoy Your Sunday, maybe a Vino or Two with your Lovely Wife & Family. C. XXX

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2greys in reply to Hacienda

Both Sharon and my son are working today, so that is why I will go out, staying in on my lonesome not exactly great and as you say cool and sunny.

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Hacienda in reply to 2greys

Enjoy your Walk to The Pub Hun. Whatever you drink it will taste like Nectar. Hugs XXXX

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Corin1950

I wish you well with all your endeavours! It’s always nice to plan ahead so you can look forward to it.

Best wishes

Corin

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HungryHufflepuff

What a big change for you 2greys, in so many ways. I wish you all the very best for your future. None of us know what will happen, be that health or other factors, the main thing is to live for today and plan for tomorrow, it's all a gamble because none of us know what will come, everything can change in an instant and life rarely goes how you think. So I wish you a wonderful few weeks of leisure, a lovely sailing holiday (which I hope you'll share with us) and all the best for your return to work 👍

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soul-123

Good luck for the future and enjoy your retirement X

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Magpuss

Good luck on your semi retirement 2gs, I'm sure you'll find plenty of things that you enjoy doing to keep you busy, and more sailing sounds like a good start. Good luck to the new owner of the business too, with your guidance and expertise, he should do well - then you'll have the best of both worlds. In the meantime, enjoy being a 'gentleman of leisure' - it can't be that hard, after all it's only the leisure bit that will be new to you😉👍 Wishing you well.

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O2Trees

Big change 2G - I wish all the very best. If the new owner needs your help for the foreseeable, then maybe you could charge him a consultancy fee! Anyway you are such a resourceful person Im sure you'll have new plans and schemes. And Im sure you'll be a brilliant role model for us all. :) :)

Have a great holiday!

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2greys

I console myself with knowing that none of us are immortal and retirement from the rat race would be inevitable. I am reasonably proud to have gone way past the age of retirement, let alone dealing with the poor health of having 5 chronic illnesses.

On a other note, at my Oncology appointment a couple of weeks ago there were no visible changes shown with an X-Ray, all stable. My next appointment in 6 months time with a CT Scan, another 3 1/2 years to go and hopefully by then, off the hook :)

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Lemon7

Hope everything is good for you in everything you do 2greys. You, and others on this site, inspired me when I was down thinking I wouldn't be able to do anything on diagnosis of copd. Hope you have a great holiday. Use your incredible energy and willpower to take up new challenges you enjoy. All the best.

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2greys in reply to Lemon7

I am pleased that we have dispelled your fears. I have said it before, every cloud has a silver lining, developing COPD and getting diagnosed has saved my life, because without it my lung cancer would have gone un-diagnosed until it was too late to treat.

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Lemon7 in reply to 2greys

Yes, silver linings and wake up calls to look after ourselves. Have a long, happy and busy retirement.

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SquirrelsHolt

What a great way to start my Sunday morning!👍A happy Caspiana and yourself looking like you've taken retirement well,although you know you will be a Consultant for the next few months until your new man finds his feet👣lol!! Then you put icing on the 🎂 cake by telling us of your next sailing adventure in 6 weeks time with Sharon and your son. It is for sure a great idea to know if the going gets tough,your son can do more of the physical work,although I think you'll be fighting him off,whilst maintaining you can do it all on your own. I hope you will allow us to all share your Norfolk Broads experience again as your daily diaries were so readable .... almost addictive😂.

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2greys in reply to SquirrelsHolt

Hahaha "whilst maintaining you can do it all on your own", it seems you know me all too well :) I will be taking more of a back seat this time though, it has been a few years since Michael has been back to the Broads and would like to give him chance to brush up on his sailing skills. He will no doubt be wanting to go back with his friends.

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Kittykat2

Enjoy your time now and have a great holiday 💕X

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Gladwyn

Your planned sailing holiday sounds amazing. I followed your adventures last time so look forward to it again. I would have condensation before mosquitos anytime lol.

Looks like you WILL be very business running your ex business for a long time yet teaching the new owner how it all works. 😀

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hypercat54

Well done and enjoy being a gentleman of leisure. Soon you will be so busy enjoying yourself anyway you will wonder how you ever found the time to work! x

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skischool

Sounds like this retirement business is taking you way back in time to a 'Swallows and Amazons' type of existence which i am sure will maintain your health and your sanity..:)

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2greys in reply to skischool

I wish! Along with being the same age.

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Patsy164

It’s the thought of it I think, but as time goes by there is so much to do when you aren’t helping the new owner out.

I’m so glad I’m not working anymore I find lots to do sometimes reading all the posts on here and answering some takes up time.

Have a lovely break on the Norfolk Broads x

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megshafer

2greys, you will most probably be very busy. There will be lots for you to do.

Most importantly, stay active, stay well, and take good care of you......and enjoy!!!!

Meg🌻🌻

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2greys

Staying active, even indoors with my rowing machine and static cycle, will be uppermost in my mind. I have not made it this far and I am not going to blow it all away. It will take time to get into a new routine with exercising.

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cofdrop-UK

I wish you a very happy and long retirement. Most people you speak to who are retired say they ‘don’t know how they had time to work.’

Enjoy your holiday.

Cx

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2greys

I certainly hope that it will be the same case with me, although I do have the prospect to carry on working as an employee.

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Caspiana

Hello 2greys ,

Knowing you even though you are now "a gentleman of leisure" you will be busy . 😊 I know when I stopped working I was worried as to what I'd do to keep occupied , but surprisingly we find things don't we? 😅

How exciting to go sailing. ⛵ I have ever only been on rather large vessels and I'd imagine manning your own vessel would be very exciting indeed. Would it not be very cold in October? I always imagined sailing holidays to be a summer activity. In the mean time keep yourself as well and rested as possible for this adventure.

Looking forward bit hearing more about it.

Cas xx🌊

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2greys in reply to Caspiana

Hi Cas. Sailing in October is usually not too cold. The average temp in Norfolk is about 15°C, which to be honest is well inside my comfort zone, sailing is very energetic which generates a lot of body heat. In fact 15°C is just about right to not get all sweaty and uncomfortable. We did have one year, 2009, when there was a cold snap, with some ice and snow, we built a small snowman on the bow. All the modern yachts do have hot air heating in the accommodation as well.

There are a few very old lightweight traditional yachts, that have no electricity, no engine, no gas, no heating, no toilet and no water tank, just a wooden yacht, including the mast, sails and a couple of bunks. Paraffin lamps, primus stove, water can and a chemical toilet are used. When there is no wind, a "quant" (a wooden pole with forked end) is used, shoved into the riverbed at the bows and then walk down the deck to the stern, thus pushing the boat along, and then repeat. Extremely basic indeed, camping on the water! A real enthusiast's holiday.

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joyce74

Hop e you enjoy your break and fill your time with things you like to do, nit what you have to.

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watergazer

Good luck to you 2greys in your new role. Enjoy having less stress but having the satisfaction of helping this young lad out and showing him the ropes.

Enjoy your break in the beautiful Broads. All the best Anita x

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Bingo88

Glad you are going to be Enjoying life more 2greys, Hope you have a lovely break and many more to come. Christmas is on the way. Take Care pal. BRIAN

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Ergendl

All the best to you at the start of this new chapter in your life.

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Izb1

Enjoy your FREEDOM 2g, you now can relax , no stress, no worries and look forward to the thrill of teaching some young person the trade that has taken a lifetime to develop. AND you have a great holiday coming up, what more could life offer, count your blessings daily end enjoy everyday your new found freedom x

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Rebecca6

Enjoy your holiday because it sounds as if your 'retirement' is going to be as busy as a full time job!

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Shirleyj

New chapter of your life, enjoy x⛵⛵⛵

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Dedalus

You'll have a great time once you get used to your 'part' retirement. Enjoy x

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Comino2

Have a lovely time on the Broads and do tell us all about your sailing adventures on your return xx

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