Depression

[Margie2553]

I am in the absolute pitoof despair dealing with copd is bad enough know been told my kidneys are getting worse i don't see any point to anything anymore my hubby is so good but it's getting tohim doctors at 5 need to more one way or the other

[pergola]

Margie - you sound really desperate, but you have opened the door to a happier life by coming in the forum. I think you need to see your doctor again and tell him/her exactly how you feel. Ask for a double aptment if necessary. You have a loving husband which is great. It might be an idea to assess all that is good in your life. You don't say how severe your health problems are and how you are coping with them.

Not sure what "doctors at five" means. I do think you need to enjoy precious moments with husband. Good luck XXX

[Margie2553 in reply to pergola]

I have an emergency appointment at 5pm I'm diabetic and am hypoing all the time it got to much this morning and he cried and i feel so guilty for doing this to him my children don't know how i am they are spending Easter together and don't want to spoil it for them I've had to fight a lot cancer diabetes kidney failure copd i feel i have no fight left

[Caspiana]

Hello Margie2553 .

How long have you had kidney problems? When they say getting worse does this mean you have to consider dialysis?

I am so sorry things seem so terribly hard at the moment. Sometimes it just seems like when it can't possibly get any worse it all goes spectacularly wrong. Please don't give up. I am sure this is just a really bad day.

I am thinking of you for your doctor's appointment. Please do let us know how things go.

Sending you a gentle hug.

Cas xx 🌿🌻🌿

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Reading what you have said i have kidney probloms as i use a bag and pads i have copd and a muscala disorder ( ms ) but the best way i look at it is think how lucky i am that there is a lot wores off than me that is how i deal with it i am not haveing a go at you but the best thing is to say ok i got it so what can i do for my self .your husbond sonuds great to you and under stands you just like my wife and my childen do as my know every thing about me even when i get a memory loss and i forget things with in mins of being told so cheer and enjoy life like you more than likkele did before you had your illnness best of luck and hope yhe docs gos well for you

[sassy59]

My heart goes out to you Margie and your dear hubby. You have so much to put up with but its good that you have the wonderful people on here to tell all too. Please tell your doctor everything and make him listen. You need all the help you can get and so does your husband.

Sending good wishes to you. Xxxxx

[Time_2_drink]

Afternoon Margie I hope your doctors appointment goes well and you get some help and advice your husband sounds a good one like mine and it is hard for them which upsets us thinking of you Margie x

[Pam1952]

Good luck Margie. Hope all goes well for you at the doctors. Will be thinking of you. XXX

[Ergendl]

How did your doctors appointment go, Margie?