Virus Daughters Betrayal

[Want2BHappy3]

My Daughter and I have been having trouble getting along during this time. She’s claimed to be taking precautions? Seems that she really hasn’t? I saw her on Facebook taking a selfie with a friend of hers that I don’t know NO MASK or Social Distance !!! I’ve been having to get after her about this in the past. Now she wants to have a gathering with a couple of my sisters grandkids and her son for Halloween. I told her I’m against it because my 90 year old mother lives with my sister. She needs to be Protected, there needs to be a 14 day quarantine, I told her just because someone gets tested doesn’t mean they don’t have it? The friend said she tested Negative and lives with her 75 year old father, that No one comes around them? I told her if that’s True? Why did her friend get Tested? So we’re Not talking AGAIN cause I told her I’ll tell my sister about her RISKY behavior? Don’t know WHY I can’t get though to her? Hopefully everything will be Better next year? The stress of her behavior is making me physically Sick, I’m 65/Diabetic. So I’ve decided to get an application for senior Housing , can’t live with her anymore. Even before this she’s been difficult to live with, she won’t do ANY cleaning,disapline her son, it’s been building up. She doesn’t know how good she has it? I pay for majority of the bills and rent. I want the holidays to be good for my grandson that’s been Hard me worrying about the virus and her attitude? 😷🙏

[GJRWS]

I do think younger people have a different attitude to all this...and have run out of patience. I too find it upsetting to see them gathering on the park near me in the evening. They have not got our life experience and feel invincible. Many of them will have older relatives they live with . That does not excuse your daughter from her lack of consideration for you.

Might it be good for her to have to manage without your support for a while? At the moment she seems to have it easy...even a live in baby sitter.

[Want2BHappy3 in reply to GJRWS]

You’re right, which annoys me even more the saying “Don’t bite the hands that feeds you” comes to mind . How can someone treat their parents this way when we’ve done so much for them? I’m going to look into moving anyway there will come a day when I will die she’ll have to figure it anyway. Better Now than later. The news said that the Younger people are the ones who are Responsible for keeping this virus Going. It’s too BAD they their too SELFISH to see it? Thanks for your support 🙏😷