From one thing to the next

[Aguglielmo986]

My anxiety was triggered after a family fight. Then it lead to my gallbladder attack being so bad that I need surgery. I’m so stressed and anxious over surgery that I feel like I’m going to die during surgery. Now I’m up obsessing over if my boyfriend and I are truly in love. I can’t win right now. My mind is everywhere. I started new anxiety medicine last month. Waiting for it to fully kick in. Anyone have advice ?

Note: me and my boyfriend have had some rough patches. Deep down I know I love him more then the world and I want us to be perfect. Is this my anxiety taking over me because of the stress I’m under.

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Hello

I can relate to it feels like it is one thing or another very much at the moment that feels like it is taking our anxiety to new heights you are not alone

When we get like this we question everything , I have been married 26 years and when I get this bad I question do I want a divorce which thank goodness I never have gone and done as I could not manage without him so just see this at the moment it is your anxiety , wait till things get easier and I think you will realise you do love him but don't do anything rash while you feel this way and know this can be a normal reaction

Take Care x

[Aguglielmo986 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you so much ❤️

[Hidden in reply to Aguglielmo986]

Forgot to say , good luck with your surgery , it will all be fine even though easy for me to say and back to relationships they are never easy and even when you have been married a long time they have their up's and down's but if you are both serious about each other then you work them out

No relationship is going to be perfect all the time but you have to weigh up the good times against any negatives , if the good times come out on top then you work through the bad times together x