I get overwhelmed and need some help

[sam0191]

Hi guys

my question is related to overthinking on a job.

I am in college and I start working a part job in an insurance office. and now I get another offer to work (another type of job) also part-time and the income is higher. The problem is I don't like the new job and I am happy with my job now, but my family is keep stressing me telling me that we need money and I have to get the new job and leave the first one. they just decided I have to get the new job without asking my view. they dont bother to ask about my feeling even though they know that I have social anxiety and working on my self. now I get overwhelemed and dont know what to do, feeling bad. what I want is to keep working in my job but in the other-side I keep thinking that If I did not get go to the new one that I am weak and my job that I working on now is worthless. any help please, cant stop thinking and I get overwhelmed with my feeling. I have homeworks that I have to do but couldnt stop thinkin

[Hidden]

Don't listen to them, your mental health is more important stay where you feel comfortable.

[Pudding098]

I think you need to do whats best for you, i used to always listen to my parents and take the path they wanted me to take, they didnt mean any harm but it got me into situations that were too much for me and now i have a big mess to clear up. Money is nice but ots not everything, theyre your parents at the end of the day and im sure they would prefer you to be happy over a bit of extra money, plus you sound like you have studies to wwork on too. I always find that u can always find ways to live within your means, it might mean baked beans on toast for dinner every night until you are in a good happy position to get a good happy job. But trust me for a better mental health its worth it. Try not to feel guilty i know thats hard. Have you told them how you feel because you might presume they know and really they dont or theyre so wrapped up in their own lives they havent realised. Hope this helps x.