so ive spent all morning crying while me and my partner have argued and it gone well past the little row we had now, having ago at each other, telling me im a freak and weird. had my first proper breakfast this morning, porridge and blueberries, not good enough didn't eat all of it so im not making an effort, his living with an anorexic corpse. getting violent which I stopped in the relationship as its wrong, no he pushes me knocks the door off its hinges talks to me like crap knocks things out my hand stops me eating so now ive gone without lunch.
I worry when cars are on the front and I go out as not going far atm im paranoid, all cars are out today perfect to go for a walk, he goes out I feel rubbish sat upstairs all day while he plays on the xbox, wasted and depressing day
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Oh hun
You have just had a couple of positive days & now this
I thought the OH was good to you & I am very upset , to read he treats you this way , he is out of order !!!!!!
Now no one should be treating you this way or speaking to you like this , i am certainly not making any excuses for him , do you think part of it is frustration , even though like i say he shouldnt be doing this
If this is his personality in general , i dont care how much I loved him , he would be out that door grrr
I hope later , you may be able to sit him down & tell him this is the last time & it stops
Have you a Mum or someone you could confide in or that could have a chat with him about this , i no if a man was doing this to one of my daughters , he wouldnt no what had hit him , well he would , it would be me & I am not violent , but that would make me
You tried to eat this morning ,thats the main thing & later you may feel like trying again
By the way , you dont look like a corpse to me in your pic , you look beautiful
love
whywhy
xxx
I used to talk to my mum,, cant really my dad he would get annoyed and I cant be doing with it. Everything calm but im more upset ive not eaten, he isn't bothered, no energy again, not been out and sat alone I never got this anxious because of a man
Thankyou for your reply, tomorrow I will just carry on and pick myself up xxx
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Oh I bet your Mum would want to no , i no I would
Dont be upset , even if you didnt have a problem with eating , the upset today would have put anyone of eating believe me !
Start again tomorrow as you say , or maybe even later you might feel like it
Have your build up drink if you can , every little helps
Sound like a Tesco or is it Asda advert with that comment , every little helps , but it does in what ever way
xxx
That's a bad day hunni!
Have a hot bath and try to de stress maybe turn in early with a good book and put today down to a bad day.
Tomorrow is another day .... Maybe a positive day Sending you hugs xxxx
lol yes it does,, yeah I need to make tea for my little one, and chores as he said he going to his dads he still giving me grief, my dad going on holiday and my mum aint here nomore id always go round to hers or talk she would make me feel better
You are NOT weird and a freak and you don't deserve to be spoken to like that! Oh I'm so sorry to hear you've been treated this way, it sounds like you're making the effort to help yourself but you're being knocked back by what is said and done in these horrible arguments
Please be strong and try not to give up with making sure you have a good meal because of the situation at home... I know it's easier said than done! Is there anywhere calm you could go to so you can talk to someone and have a meal while you're there? Like a friend's house or to your parents?
It sounds like you need to be in a comforting environment before you can properly start helping yourself.
im soo sorry! i cant eat either eg an apple in 24 hours. my partner is ignoring me.he is just waiting for my tablets to start working. but I feel he will loose patience. my family lives abroad. im an immigrant. dunno what to do...
lets eat something !
its not very nice, I got to the point were all I would is an apple, it wasn't healthy, just got to keep positive things will get better im gonna have some lunch after my walk, I must go for my walk before my day goes too quick xxx
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