in the market

[kanzler1987]

I am in the market for a new lifestyle………

[litethatnevergoesout]

No. not everyone has the strength to pull through dark or tough times, no matter how deep you dig, no matter how strong your spirit may be. It is very dangerous to advise people that they shouldn’t feel like they can or need to ask for help. that the answer for when things get really bad only comes with trying harder.

what’s cliche about your comment is it sounds exactly like what people that have 0 issues with mental health have to say.

I hope people reading this can know there’s help and no shame in asking for it and not feel like they aren’t reaching deep enough or somethings wrong with them because they can not find ‘it’ by themselves.

[Dolphin14 in reply to litethatnevergoesout]

Wow, lite

That is very well said.

🐬

[litethatnevergoesout in reply to Dolphin14]

wow… well, dolphin, thank you.

maybe I need an emoji as a signature like you have a dolphin…

I doubt I will stick with it though.

💡

[Dolphin14 in reply to litethatnevergoesout]

LOVE IT

Go for it 💡

[litethatnevergoesout in reply to Dolphin14]

haha

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[litethatnevergoesout]

oh… hey no worries, please don’t feel like you can not comment! I misspeak quite a bit we are only human. no need to apologize you are also not stupid and you wanting to help was very clear. I do not feel like you owe me any apology nor need my forgiveness, it’s all ok in the past misunderstandings happen.

[litethatnevergoesout]

go easy seeker719, you aren’t a monster please don’t be mean towards yourself. everything’s ok.

[hypercat54]

Please don't feel like that. Lite is right (hey that rhymes) we have only the written word to go on here and sometimes things don't come out the way you thought they would in your head. We have all done it on here - I know I have a number of times. I have accepted my dressing down, felt bad for a short time then realised that I had no reason to really.

We don't judge on here and your desire to help was obvious. We all mean to help even when we do the opposite if you see what I mean. So please take Lite's response the way it was meant and listen to me too. Now have some chocolate and wine and that will cheer you up a bit

[hypercat54]

Oh and the fact that you feel bad just shows what a genuine person you are. Someone with no conscience would't feel like that would they. You are clearly a person who cares about others and that is a big plus in your favour.

Oh if you want to edit or delete replies (not saying you should) just find the edit button on your device and you will see the options there. You can also lock your posts to this community to which will stop it going virile and even appearing on social media.