Frustration and sadness and Mums temper tantrum’s

[Roukaya]

many times I am on this site and many listen and offer advice .

I am a Muslim and Ramadan is approaching and Mum asked me to go overseas from Mid March until Mid April .

I have spent many Ramadans in my Mums country and I have neglected two Property exams .

As I have one paper at the end of June , I decided to prepare for the paper and visit Mum after the paper .

This time it is a Property exam in Landlord and Tenant and I can understand as I previously administered my Fathers rental properties.

Mum means well but projects her worries and troubles onto me .

Frustrating at my inability to move on since 2018 and pressure to find a job before I put my rental flat for sale at the end of this year .

[PNIAuthor60]

The situation as you describe it does appear quite stressful; at the same time it appears that you have prioritized what is important to you at this time and going to see your Mom afterwards is appropriate once your paper is completed and you can visit without any regrets. I wish you well both on your paper and during your visit with your Mom.

[Roukaya in reply to PNIAuthor60]

Thanks for your reply,I have anxiety issues and low self belief and low confidenc.

I have donecmy best for my Mother and if she so wishes, she can join me in UK.

I will be 55 in August and this why I am putting the rental flat for sale as it is time I moved to a larger and more diverse city as where I am is too isolated .

Every year I go to my Mother's country and I return back to the same situation.

Thanks you for listening

How are you ?

[PNIAuthor60 in reply to Roukaya]

I am well, better than I have ever felt in decades - it is both exhilerating and a strange experience but I welcome more of it due to the miracle of my grandson, Kieran. Thanks for your kindness in asking how I am, I appreciate it.