one side lesson of chess...

when two people come to play chess- and the other in their opening moves....goes right for the kill or .is ruthless against a lesser oppenent.....

the overall lesson to viewers is already clear.....

one man came in peace......the other came for the jugular...

same with meetings or any sitauituion

so.....people who mistreat me or my friends who also come in peace

have already lost.....so busy in their apparent victory.....too stupid to green to know they ....have already lost.....

a teacher of many areas

a mentor

an ally

connections

support job opportuntietes and connections

reacher of industrial arts, life skils, studying, art and on and on and on

same with people who look down their noses at us....they by definition

hafe already lost....i do not have to come to their aid....i do not ...have to teach them anyhing

and i will ....teach them humillity they should have....because all the pearls of my hard eanred life....they ......will have to figure out.....on their own....teh hard way becaus ewhat i kno w.....istnt.....in any books.......

so.......stop worrying about anxiety that is age and wil go away with experience and training and studying and ewxperience.....stop worrying about worrying or axiety....go find safe places to gain expereince....go volunteer no matter how small....age old principles......u wil gain experence an dfind frineds and the elders will respect u for making urself useful and not being like toher spoiled or super snotty party party drunks or pool partie frat snots oretc............u worry about what the elders think.....young people dont worry agbout what tthey thihk....life will catch up with them.....and the elders already know who rhey will hire last.....as they were cruel or hard on u.....when u needed a big brother or sister...........etc.......

anxiety...u dont need shrink or or seen this time and again for copetitons and iexams....runing to the counselor ....or what.....ur scared because u know in ur heart ur not ready an ur goingt to get creamed.......the counslor has no magic pill.......so ....u own up and start early ......samw as we tell all students all ages.......the party kids will cram the night beroe and the one that tgets help early from the teacher and works daliy or uses the info or study buddy and works hard .....they wil prevail.......

there no magic forjula....so u hafe anxiety so what then srart earlier......so i takes me lontger .....so waht...........i studied so much and so hard.....so lontg .....i was so well prepared....i walked intto five day oral exams........ready ande im not that smart....

i llistej to myslef..........i prepare and preapared....done i5 over again........told people how .....never awa to listen ....ok ................fine do i t the hard way go talk to ur counselor who knows ntohign about the exam .....or go study go practriee....

[Midori]

Well said . Brig!

Cheers, Midori

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ur kind thanks....mr long winded..sorry

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cant stand how people are tortured by their diagnosises .....thankful to all who jump in and retrain them just like new people new to prothetics cancer diabetes ....the shock of the diagnosis is badly counseled .......whereas it takes all of the old timer here to grab therm up and say..............sorry about whats happening..........were all going to the pub or the museum or play baseball or walk on the canal .............life goes on.........we learn to adapt, cope compensate.......compensate..........compensate whtih the help of others and freinds who see bign hhuman our stength.......forgt clinical icecubes and so called perfect people......the anmals dont care how little moneh we have or or or or.......they just say.....come play come playh come play......they arent wrong........they are the social eqaulizer in life and if they like u.....thats good enoujgh for me

secondly......many peopre under report their suffering......of the past or the present and live with terrible or vy hard eprsonal lives diffilult familes diffluctul medical...........tip of the icegburg.....they wont complain.....tehy wil under report.........to all of u silent reporters...

u hae opiur res[ects our non pity sympathies..........and are never not.......in our supportive protective and respectfuil thoughts and prayers.......said on behalf of the thousands of supporters and survivors here...............we all do our best to sup[port one antoher.....adn ofthen grit on solder on bear on.............and force ourselves grit our teeth and press on.........no other choice.........we must survive.......even when it seems pointles hopeless.......we bear on not becasue it makes sense......we press on to build a better life for us and our freinds.....in the presence of hardship......its who we are.......we press forward.......one mm at a time if we must

many deal with hardlives in silence....ur in our prayers.....soldier on ur stronger than u know....and worth it.......the turkeys who make htis world aweful.....dont hold a candle to u........