Ask anyone who's walked the earth for a while and they will tell you this. You can give someone the world and still they aren't happy. You can change your looks, style, and personality to fit that person's wants l, but it'll never make them happy. So don't try too hard ok. Ppl have standards and wanna shove them down your throat. Screw that just live for yourself and do the best you can.
I tried so hard to fit in and change myself so I'd be accepted, but very little changed. They will try to tear and force you to live how they see fit. Don't bother too much because you'll be miserable in the process. If you ain't hurting nobody or causing stress you are good my friend. Trust me on this you ain't never going to make them happy I swear.
Change for yourself most importantly and if the pressure is too much then change your appearance. We all want to be accepted and to fit in. So understandable, But keep in mind that your life won't magically become rich and happy.
Life is tough and it waits for no one so if someone is constantly trying to mold you forget it ok. You could become famous, rich, and hot and still they'd hate you. People see you happy and tear you down, when you're sad they try to bring you up, and back and forth. So remember don't try too hard you'll stress yourself out. Take care ok. Bye.
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You are right, happiness comes from within just be yourself and if possible the best yourself you can be today. You can change yourself to be who you want to be not what others think you should be.
Hello, looks like you are learning some of life's awful lessons.Thru therapy I learnt who I am, I grew into myself, it is lovely. The therapist asked us in group therapy, "are you outer directed or inner directed"? Oh, yes I was outer directed. "Does everybody like you? Do you like everybody?" Answer No. So I gave that up, I do not care what anybody thinks of me, it's their problem. I am a kind, generous, caring person, some people will try to take advantage of that, so we have to be aware of users. No one buys my food, pays my rent, or anything else for my upkeep, so they can bug off. learning all these lesson gave me freedom, I am happy and content, live in peace. I used to be a big worrier, learnt to give that up, another stroke for me. There is a Lot to learn in life, therapy helped me A LOT, also a great book I read Helped me learn a lot about myself and other people, it is a good read, I still use lessons I learnt in it. By Dr. Scott Peck, "The Road Less Traveled", amazon has it used/new, a worth while investment.......I wish you well, send love, hugs and peace.....
Yes indeed I've learned a lot as time goes on. No matter what I do someone will just find something else to hate. I was absolutely miserable when I tried to fit everyones wants. In then end didn't get much out of it. It's still a struggle for me but I'm trying to not give a **** because I know they don't give a rats *** about me either. Human beings are so complicated lol.
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Too many seemingly Happy People here
This is the third day of happiness and some calm... I never would have thought 😃 
To the normal people...
