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Technology / Privacy (Part 2)

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Part 1;

To the point... can someone watch and video you through your i-Pad or i-Phone’s camera. The question took on a new sense of urgency last night so the reasoning for my question will follow shortly!!! Trying to make a short story out of a novel but (whats left of) my mind is just spinning out of control!!!!

Part 2 (go to the last paragraph to skip history);

Due to the overwhelming humiliation on my part, I took this post down. Thank you very much to those that commented. It’s at a point where what will be, will be (sing it Doris)!!! Going with my gut that its all B.S. but ready for damage control as well!!!!

Jc

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noahware profile image
noahware

I know nothing about tech, and very little about scams ( I got scammed on ebay once, big time) but I can tell you this particular scam has already been in the news. LOTS of men are getting this email. The advice from authorities is to ignore it.

And if the scammers were to follow up on the threat of sending pics to other people , then 1) that would also be in the news and 2) they'd be working 24/7, given the number of visitors to these sites. That would be work that had no benefit, since their demands were unmet, so it seems unlikely they would waste the time.

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Jimhoy in reply to noahware

Been ignoring them for a couple days and in my heart, I know its BS.

I’m not a big believer in coincidences and this one hits home.... guilty conscience I guess!!!

Used to be a pretty smart guy! Can actually remember that!!!! That adds to my frustrations!!

Thanks

Jc

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noirhole

If you were watching porn on your laptop the site could have downloaded malicious software on yor computer and may me able to turn your microphone and camera on at any time. Place some electrical tape over your camera and download malwarebytes to fully scan and remove malicious software. Sometimes you may need to restore your computer to to a previous version to get rid of the software. Once you have all of the bad software removed install an anti-virus program that does real-time scanning. Also don't run your computer as an administrator. Creare a User account with no software installation permissions you will then be prompted every time a program tries to install.

Good Luck

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Jimhoy in reply to noirhole

Not on Pc nor laptop... just I-pad!

Reading it put that way makes me sound more perverted than my intended use! I’m as into porn as I am into touching myself.... not at all! Reluctantly following advice to correct something of which I know very little about!!! I could very well be the biggest chump in the world doing so but.... seams to be working! A byproduct of this post would be someone commenting on the credibility of that advice!!!!!!! Not believing that I could be more humiliated then I am now, I don’t believe I’ll stop it now with so much riding on it.... just eliminate the high tech starter fluid!!

Thanks for your advice!!

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noirhole in reply to Jimhoy

Nothing to be humiliated about you are just being alive. Take care and I hope this all gets resolved.

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Kaliber in reply to Jimhoy

Think you have “ sensitive “ photos and / or videos ? How many of yours include 12X 12 shiny black rubber sheets ... gallon size jars of mayonnaise, a Shetland pony and a gas weed eater ....eh .... bet mine are better than yours yayahahahaya yayahahahaya. Don’t worry about it , it’s all b.s. .... read my other post to you.

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Jimhoy in reply to Kaliber

A feather is one thing..... the whole chicken is just sick!!!!

Nothing like that! Just trying to get it working!!!!

Jc

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Kaliber in reply to Jimhoy

Yayahahaha yayahahaha ewwwwwwwww good one ... I like it. I know a whole string of chicken plucker jokes, but Darryl the hammer would hack those instantly yayahahaha. Peace brother 💪💪😂😂😂😂

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Shanti1

I have recieved emails of this nature three times now. Each time the provided the same old password as proof that they had access to my laptop camera and demanded payment in bitcoins. I knew it was a scam as I hadn't visited any porn sites or engaged in said activity. I looked it up online and was able to confirm the scam.

These types of scammers are the worst of the worst, but you are not in danger.

cbsnews.com/news/nasty-sexp...

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Jimhoy in reply to Shanti1

Thanks, reassuring to say the least! Still not much response about i-Pads though!!! Guess I’ll know any min now!

Jc

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Magnus1964

I am or was a tech guy. I was a network administrator before I retired a dozen years or so. So my knowledge is a bit rusty. But when I saw an interview with Mark Zuckerber in his work space, I saw he had a piece of tape over his PC camera. That did it for me. I have tape over the camera lens of my laptop.

My wife thinks I am a paranoid. It's just one thing I don't have to think about.

As to your situation, I don't think this guy can get any satisfaction from exposing your private moments.

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Jimhoy in reply to Magnus1964

I get that and don’t have a web cam on my pc. My bad for not adding 2 & 2 with the cameras on my i-Pad! Honestly didn’t “plan” on doing any of this shit anyway so it’d be kind of moot!! But here we are!!! Guess I’ll know in 2mins @ 12:00.

Thanks

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Kaliber in reply to Magnus1964

Good advice

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16starsky

Its a scam, my husband got one, just ignore it, nothing will happen. Do not reply to it either We both jut laughed, !!when he read it out to me.

Jimhoy, you’re going thru hell. It’s good to let it out here. Why? Because Everyman on adt can relate to you exactly . I’m just glad you’re not punching me in the throat. Sex is not in the cards amigo for most of us . I have Constant night wood so I don’t master bate . I just find no thrill there. Haven’t even tried it . I chopped my balls off brother. I’ve been on constant adt over five years now.?Sex is a distant afterthought now . This APC can destroy Our feeling and emotions. The key is not to value yourself sexually anymore . Thats a young mans game. You’re 61, I’m 59 . We can fight self and even hate self in this ordeal. Please don’t do that . If I or anyone had all of the answers there wouldn’t be over 10,000 of us here seeking help. So I say let it out brother. Scream from the hill tops and then get back to life not concerning sex. I was a mad man my first two years with APC .I was so angry that”I” of all people was brought down to wallow in the mud and fight for my very existence . You ain’t the only one . We are all fucked in this respect . Don’t down yourself anymore . Stay with any positive aspects in your life . APC is a tremendous mental and emotional hill that we must climb with no t aboard. We are disadvantages but not out yet . Hang in there dude . 😎💪

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Jimhoy in reply to

Scott

Your words are always full of inspiration, and backed with experience!! Thank you!!!

I’m one stubborn American mick! If there is a glimmer out there, I’m still chasing it. There is absolutely NO thrill / pleasure involved only the thought of a successful outcome. Like I mentioned, I see about 50% return to my old self. This up from “negative” numbers!!! I may have mishandled todays challenge by putting too much info out there but like I said, my head was spinning out of control! It dawned on me while reading the comments that this was taking me back to my anxiety and depression days that I fought my way out of. Had my left over bottle of Ativan in my hand and ready to go! Put the breaks on and took the post down. Not going backwards especially by some PoS’s doing!! I still don’t know if the threat / blackmail is credible but I can fight what I can see not some “c. u. Next Tuesday” hiding behind a keyboard, f#$king people over in lieu of working for a living!! But I’m not bitter!!

Stay well!

Jc

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We won’t get bitter😂😂🤙🏽

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cesces

Are you talking about scammers claiming to blackmail you with pictures from your phone.

They are all bull.

I was getting one a month for a while.

Hacking your phone is a lot of work. Spamming people until you find someone foolish enough to blackmail is much easier.

Just delete the Nigerian prince email.

But still, I would stay away from untrusted and untrustable websites. I would say that includes pretty much any porn site, especially if it is free.

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Gemlin_

This is just a scam and no one has caught you doing anything on video! It is an international widespread blackmail pattern. These scams are sent in massive amounts and the sender uses addresses that have leaked when they have hacked a company's user data database.

On the Haveibeenpwned.com website, you can check if your email address or username is listed among known leaks.

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Kaliber

Welp I could write volumes about this stuff. I’m an extremely knowledgeable computer engineer , I write code in half a dozen ( old ) languages ... mumps, c+, c+++, turtle, cpm , dos , old http , etc. and I’ve had the most massive attacks any person could ever have.

I had 5 overlapping home automation networks installed ... wemo, Vera edge, swann ring , xFi , etc ... a vast network of IoT devices ...all interlinked. Over 120 IoT home automation devices online at one time.

Well to make a long story short , I stupidly left an old dos xp-pro pc online on the network and basically forgot about it in the closet in the back room ( for 9 years ) I only used it as a smart device controller / interface. Sadly it was an open door to invite in the hackers and computer criminals in. NOTE: anyone using IoT devices online ... patched thru your router ( accessible from away from the house ) is simply begging for trouble. Unless it’s xfi devices , immediately close the outside porting in your router and never use it again. It’s like leaving a gate open to your house you can drive a Diesel truck thru.

I had my inside cameras hacked and follow me around the house being watched 1000s of hours ... my alarm system sirens activated in the middle of the night 100s of times .. had people scream and curse at me thru both my inside and outside cameras .. had my garage door opened so many times in the middle of the night that I had to unplug it nights before going to bed ... and much more.

I’ve received the “ we’ve got pictures and videos “ email terrorism demanding $1500 in bit coins a dozen times or more.

Most hacking today is done by professional business hackers located in tall buildings full of floors of paid hackers that do nothing else. It’s a full time job for them. My main hackers were Ukrainian and Russian and expert professionals. Obviously I knew they were in my system but too lazy to mess with them. Then when I got the $1500 ransom note they pi$$ed me off. I found that one hacker was using one of my modems to terrorize other people and stored many files hidden ( poorly ) on one of my network drives. I accessed his family / personal photos library and proceeded to use photoshop to .... er ...ah ...” customize “ family photos to VERY rude x-rated photos. Then I told the random demander to go XXXX himself ...both things set off an anger storm that continues ( worthlessly ) even today nearly two years later. Seems like many people working for them have adhd - odd personality disorders to carry a grudge that long.

I told them if they knew someone they could show my photos or video to, let me know and I’d like to see it too. I’m retired, my family is dead .. and really if they had some “ good “ ones , I might be proud as a white haired old man my age to have them looked at yayahahahaya. Go right ahead ...... yayahahahaya. That triggered a storm where they tried a ddos attack on me for months and a gigantic attack on my IoT , smart tv and smart fridge. Yayahahahaya

I removed all my interior cameras, and pulled out my army of IoT devices ( got a ring camera, toss it... any ported outside interior network cameras ... unplug them ) Etc. I changed to 24 hour monitored super fast ( non ddos jamable ) xfinity mesh XFi ... 3 gigabit bandwidth. I now have two outside video camera systems and nothing inside automated. Indoors automation has no protection. So .... close “ ALL “ porting inside your router, nothing to the outside world ever again except xFi style monitored cameras, erase , clean and reload every single pc, pad , smart tv , phone etc you own .... and “ very “ important .... totally erase any and all mail clients you own on any device you own ( even your smart tv ) ... always log onto your isp provider site and send and read ALL your emails in “ their “ computers and not yours ( their massive mainframes can resist mail bombs ) Next trick is that besides your cable isp connection , always activate and frequently use the “ hot spot “ on your mobile devices to access the internet from time to time. If you have two smart phones, then activate one on Verizon and one on AT&T etc. this gives you three isp addresses to switch between. You cannot stop seasoned hackers after you, but you can confuse them and divert them and hardly miss a beat with your web life. They absolutely cannot attack ALL your isp resources at one time. You can and will still get “ mailbombed “ even opening your mail in the isp’s mainframe ... when you see your wifi isp symbol disappear or your lte seem to stop ... empty / clear your smartphone ( or any ) cookie file , then restart your device on a different isp ( if WiFi when stopped then restart on lte one or lte two ) and keep on trucking. Frequently testing your current connection with Comcast speed test might inform you of a implant and let you know to switch to a different isp connection, then test that one for speed.

Ignore the ransom demand .. they send out hundreds of thousands of those a day ... a handful always bite and keep their payroll going.

I realize this is brief and patchy, it a big topic but I hope you get the basics from all this.

Peace brother 💪💪💪👍👍👍

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Jimhoy in reply to Kaliber

You had me at “welp” and lost me at “I”!!! I used to be very computer savvy. Built a couple machines just for shits and giggles and to say I did. Knew the parts and pieces and could talk intelligently with IT. Between advances in technology and my accelerated cognitive decline....I’ve lost all that now!

Maybe they got some info through a hack or other means. After today’s responses, I’m more convinced that this is a scam. If this is, in fact a credible threat, I’ll run damage control! I will not respond to these people. I set my i-phone to full time DnD allowing my contacts only.

If I get notified that something was distributed, I know everything I’ve done (only a few times) and its not obscene..... just embarrassing and explainable! I know I can not compete with them so like you say... pissing them off will do nothing but manifest the situation!!! Thank you for your (obviously) great deal of thought and time. I didn’t intend to bother anyone to this extent but I can clearly see this is subject is near and dear to you!!!

Jc

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Kaliber in reply to Jimhoy

Herze an alternative I use ....

Place a placard ( half a Manila file folder ) in front of the camera .... I say “ show at 7:00 p.m. , pst ... “ or similar. Then when the camera red access light comes on .

At seven ..... I remove the placard and strut out in front of the camera .... 375 pound beer gut, Giant adt boobs , Zometa broken tooth grin, high heels, torn panty hose and feather boa and do a little dance. Usually I hear some coughing and gaging from the camera speaker and the light Goes off fast. Then turn the placard around and say “ thanks for watching , and send me a copy of the video file please “ . Yayahahahaya yayahahahaya. After the hackers regain their “ I can’t unsee that “ mental stability , they never come back again. It’s easy ....💪💪💪👍👍👍😂😂😂

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😂

in reply to Kaliber

You had me at “Welp” wtf? The more you know the worse off you are .

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Currumpaw

Hey Jimhoy!

Type, "Sharyl Attkisson hacked", into your search bar.

Place the below in your search bar too!

"9 Household Products That May Be Spying on You - ABC News

abcnews.go.com/Business/hou...

This is old--the new technology ---well--

"They see you when you are sleeping

They know when you're awake

They know if you've been bad or good

So be good for goodness sake!"

Have you--been good?

Only done in the spirit of benevolence --right?

That is how it is today. It won't end.

Oh yes! When John Brennan was CIA Director didn't his personal email get hacked? Uh huh!

Teen Who Hacked CIA Director's Email Tells How He Did It ...

wired.com/2015/10/hacker-wh......

That kid probably has a full time job in a basement in DC and is VERY well compensated!

I guess we learn to live with it. Don't stand in front of your television in your underwear--or coffee maker--or toaster oven--especially not the dishwasher--I hear that one is a real snoop!

Anyone have an alarm clock that is doing things on it's own? Why does my cat stare at my alarm clock? LOL!

Currumpaw

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Kaliber in reply to Currumpaw

Yayahahahaya funny .... but true.😂😂😂😂

j-o-h-n profile image
j-o-h-n

I-Pad

Geez.... Just one simple question for everyone.... Does it mean I have to worry about my

P-Pads? They're really are in a humiliating location.....

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Sunday 05/24/2020 12:31 PM DST

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Kaliber in reply to j-o-h-n

Not at all ... just remove it when it’s sloshy, lay on a flat table ... inside up .... lay your iPad on top ... then sit on iPad. That’s it ... simple .... when dripping stops , it’s ready to “ go “ again. Perfect in these trying times of staying home , and recycle.....recycle ...recycle.

Just sayin ...whimpy taught me this one. 💪💪💪👍👍👍

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j-o-h-n in reply to Kaliber

Thanks.... but when they dry I use them for face masks...... (what the hell does whimpy know anyway?)

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Sunday 05/24/2020 12:55 PM DST

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Kaliber in reply to j-o-h-n

Weeeeeel ... makes sense to me and very covid and earth conscious at the same time ... what’s not to like yayahahahaya yayahahahaya

( btw: ewwwwwwwww wwwwwwwwwwww yayahahahaya)

You da champ brother 😂😂😂😂😂

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j-o-h-n in reply to Kaliber

And It guarantees getting a whole row of seats all by myself on the subway..... (what the hell does the public know anyway?)

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Sunday 05/24/2020 1:37 PM DST

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Kaliber in reply to j-o-h-n

Yayahahahaya ... maybe. From what people say... it’d hardly be noticed there yayahahahaya

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j-o-h-n in reply to Kaliber

Ya know, you're right........... 😂😂😂😂😂

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Sunday 05/24/2020 7:24 PM DST

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Kaliber in reply to j-o-h-n

Your “ face mask “ was genius... pure talent buddy. Professional grade there ....

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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j-o-h-n in reply to Kaliber

Thank you....

In appreciation I'm taking my P-L--H comedy writers out to lunch today.....I can't wait to see those OIS dumbos trying to eat while wearing their masks....what a freaking mess....

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Monday 05/25/2020 11:23 AM DST

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Kaliber in reply to j-o-h-n

Eating with “ your “ special masks on should be easy .... like a can of Campbell’s Soup ... pour a little water on them ... let the feast commence ........ right ??

Ewwwwwwwwww 😂

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j-o-h-n in reply to Kaliber

correcto detecto..... mmm mmm good

Ewwwwwwwwww 😂

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Monday 05/25/2020 12:23 PM DST

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j-o-h-n in reply to j-o-h-n

My P-L--H comedy writers suggested calling that "Soup Boarding"......

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Monday 05/25/2020 12:29 PM DST

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Kaliber in reply to j-o-h-n

Yayahahahaya. You “ nailed “ it brother. 🙈🙊🙉

in reply to j-o-h-n

Nada?

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j-o-h-n in reply to

?Por nada?

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Wednesday 05/27/2020 8:01 PM DST

in reply to j-o-h-n

Si’Senor!

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j-o-h-n in reply to

Mira Señor (click on top - song title)

youtube.com/watch?v=T_SS-Ty...

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Wednesday 05/27/2020 8:39 PM DST

in reply to j-o-h-n

Poco de gracias . Arriba arriba!

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