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So I came home today and my fiance wanted to go to Walmart before we went to his friends i was in my work clothes so I wanted to change i absolutely adore this outfit I i just recently received it and hadn't been able to wear it yet as soon as I get changed into it and he sees it he said your gonna attract unwanted attention -_- so we get to Walmart and we are in check out and I receive a compliment on my outfit from a male saying he "liked my style it looks nice" and that was it no further conversation insued. So that I guess struck a nerve with him i told him I wanna dress how I want its for me and no one else he of course was irritated; we get half way to his friends and he tells me I look like a hooker with what I have on mind you the shoes are boots: steel toed work boots for construction. It offended me deeply because he said if it was any of his exes he would of put hands on them.....

Is this outfit hookerish in any way???? I'm a little on the chunky side so to me it felt impowering being able to even have the remote confidence to wear this outfit 🥺🥺🥺

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Firstly no I dont think your outfit looks hookerish, secondly how would your partner actually know what a hooker would wear ( unless he's been with a hooker ). Or watching to much hardcore porn. I know a few very respectable sexy workers and escorts who makes dame good money from it, and most decently wouldn't wear anything other then elegant, smart, clothes. It seems to me that your partner is jealous and very insecure about himself, and his only way of feeling better about himself is by making you feel shit about yourself. Time to kick him in to touch or get rid of him.

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