JanW

I don't understand why you're not allowed HRT treatment, I'm 63 and have been on low dose HRT for years. My doctor asked if I wanted to stop, I said no because it does my joints good but I would try cutting back to a half dose which I did it made me feel awful. I am now happily back on my usual dose which is 1 mg per day.

I think this is a human rights issue i.e. If you want HRT you should be allowed to have it because it is your human right. Point this out to your doctor who by the way has no right to play God, if he refuses make a complaint and find another doctor.

Good luck.

TaraJR in reply to JanW

I was told by 2 breast cancer consultants that I must not take it any more, due to my risk factor. My GP advised coming down gradually, which I did. But as soon as I stopped altogether my symptoms came back. I thought my sleepless nights wouldn't last very long, so I accepted them. But 9 years is a LONG time to not have 1 whole night's sleep!! It has got slightly better, and I have far less daytime flushes. I also have fibroids whcih may well get worse if I have more oestrogen. But I need to get something else sorted. I think I'll ask GP for prescribed alternatives to HRT

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Silver_Fairy

Have you tried taking just progesterone?

TaraJR

Silver_Fairy, I bought a pot a few years ago, and used it for about 2 months if I remember right. But I didn't notice any difference. Is there a good make I could try again? Or can a GP prescribe?

1965Katy

I am sorry to hear you're having such a difficult time. That's a long time to not have had a decent night's sleep. I have been on HRT for one year but if I wasn't taking it I would consider Venlafaxine, an antidepressant which also helps with which menopausal symptoms. I was prescribed Clonidine a while back for another condition (autonomic neuropathy) but I decided not to take it. How is your blood pressure?

TaraJR

Thanks 1965Katy. My blood pressure is absolutely fine. Have thyroid and possible reactive hypoglycaemia issues, which are improving. But I think the tiredness I have contributes to those. I'll ask my GP about Venlafaxine and Clonidine, and see if I can try something...

Hidden in reply to TaraJR

taraJR. I wonderred readying your post if your thyroid is playing up. I think itis unusual to get papitations re menopause. You inability to sleep and rapid heart beats as well as feeling hot all the time maybe thyroid related. It is very common to get very poor treatment for thyroid issues and for doctors not to realise it is an issue. Post latest blood results (even if told they are normal) on thyroid uk forum for some really expert advice, the admin there are amazing.

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Gwesmith

Hi, after taking clonodine for 3 years for abdominal pain and high blood pressure as a result of Crohns disease, I have finally tapered off it entirely. Why? Because my 18 year old son asked what I was taking that made me so high. Couldn't remember anything, constant throat pain, creepy dreams, restless legs, days of wandering around, trying to stay awake and remember what I was doing. That's before the migranes and shaking to get off it. Don't do it.

Here's what I do to ensure I can sleep, and I believe you've tried everything but just in case : Exercise to the point of sweating everyday. Get as much sunlight as possible and if that's not enough, go to a tanning bed occasionally. If I'm in lots of pain and really need to sleep, I take 2 Tylenol and 2 benadryl and that usually does it. Also, I meditate and that helps clear out the troubling thoughts and fears that keep me up.

Good luck, I hope it gets better for you. Don't get started on clonodine.

Melzybelzy

Hi.im in the same boat as u..i started early menopause 2 yrs ago.doc put me on low dose hrt for a yr then i had major duct excision in aug last yr n i have low grade dcis n had to come off hrt..struggling with hot flushes..doc put me on fluoxitine on 1st feb but as yet they not helping:(( they are an anti depressants which can help hot sweats but im stil flushing..sleeping better tho even tho them tablets side effects are insomnia...im new here btw

sweetsusie in reply to Melzybelzy

Prozac didn't work for me to stop my flashes, but Zoloft did and it was wonderful for a while. Also, Zoloft is the easiest antidepressant to come off of, I believe. Paxil is the HARDEST! UGH! I had brain zaps and chests zaps for months after coming off of it.

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TaraJR

Well, recently my new GP offered me a trial of Citalopram. I took one tablet on the Friday, and felt really weird. Nauseous, and fast heart rate all day which was quite unnerving.

I asked the pharmacist on the Saturday, she advised I don't take any more, and see the GP again. You have to stop them slowly, but I couldn't as I'd only had one! I definitely don't want any more of those. My heart goes fast anyway when I go hot.

I'm seeing another GP tomorrow, and see what she says. Melzybelzy, I'll let you know!

urfaveasian

I'm 23. I have been prescribed clonidine and it helped me fall asleep (I have bad insomnia), helped very slightly with restless legs, took away my clamminess and sweatiness. yes it did make me a bit foggy if taken during the day but that's why it was prescribed for night time use only and definitely should not be used when operating machinery, driving, walking alone even because you might get tired as heck. it's a blood pressure medication so becareful as it may cause light headedness or tinnitus.

Pnut

who is your doctor does anybody know how to find a GP to give HRT to the over 60's, I stopped taking HRT due to having a hip replacement in 2011 , asked to go back on HRT due bad joint pains and tiredness, sweating day and night and depression/ Anxiety etc., My says that Im to old as I'm over 60!! but Im still expected to cope with going out to work

sweetsusie in reply to Pnut

i know the feeling, Pnut! I'm 70 next month and my doctor is giving me crap about wanting to go on HRT. I told him that I hoped when he was my age, and has absolutely no testosterone, but he doesn't have to suffer like I suffer without estrogen and progesterone! These doctors are just covering their arses! They don't care about how we feel...only about themselves.

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sweetsusie

I am begging my doctor to let me go on HRT! He's hesitating just like the rest of them because of my age..I'm 70, and I know there are some risks, but the studies that the researchers did on HRT were totally skewed and that has been proven. There is absolutely NO cancer of any kind in my family and I am so fatigued I can't get off my couch to walk my dog around the block, or anything else for that matter...can't clean my house anymore, etc. I'm sick of these doctors playing God. I'm supposed to find out sometime next week if he will let me take them, but i think he will say no.

Hidden

I’m on clonidine for compulsive sweating...not sure it really works as when I have anxiety I sweat like crazy but, when I went through early menopause I took Evening Primrose Oil capsules and it stopped my night sweats dead in their tracks....take Magnesium tabs at night, it’ll help with your sleep.