My name is Mike and I'm new to this group (noticed the link on FB). I had my accident over 20 years ago and after 7 surgeries and L4/L5 broken back and diagnosed with CES I know a thing or two about living with B&B incontinence.
I've read a few articles and I'm confused why someone is embarrassed to wear diapers? I wear them to prevent being embarrassed from having my bladder/bowels empty without warning.
I work and travel all over the world and none of it would be possible without the ability to manage my incon. I take 30mg of Oxybutynin daily for the bladder spasms and that helps with the sudden "floods" and I take Nullo to manage odor issues and a quality disposable brief.
It is possible to live a full and productive life post SCI (spinal cord injury) while living with Incontinence once you find what works.