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Does anyone else jerk off when anxious?

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Jmerrick22

I notice when I’m anxious it arouses me; and I tend to masturbate more frequently. Also been noticing more fetishes. For example, I love to jerk off wearing jeans and boots, it’s my favorite . Anybody else have this fetish? Tell me some examples of what you do when anxious or if your the same way

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Quite literally do exactly the same thing - feel like some sort of instant release of anxiety but it's temporary.

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Jmerrick22 in reply to jtsh1995

Exactly. Like for me you know when you orgasm how it should release your tense muscles? It does for like two minutes then I’m all tense again. But for some reason lately I like talking about sexual stuff more and really want a straight guy to give him oral. If I’m not anxious I could care less about sex. I feel so screwed up. But I have this thing where I love wearing boots

And jeans and making videos. I upload to pornhub but don’t show my face

Lol

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Cutwoody in reply to Jmerrick22

Nice. Nothing wrong with that.

Great

Absolutely. Sexual release offers a feeling of relaxation.

Yes

Speaking of anxious...I had a someone come into my office and explain and ask me to do something not within my job duties, the more he spoke the more I got anxious, I discretely unzip and had to wank before my brain exploded. I didn't how to tell him no, I guess within the anxiety I got hard as a rock and didn't even realize that had happened, stiff and nowhere to go. I guess he saw me panting and sweating and thought it was an illness so he left. I'm tired of my aniety erections, they just pop out of no where and it's hard to get a few moments alone just to wank one out.

Wow. Amazing

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Sometimes if I am anxious I will jerk off just to calm down. It makes me level headed once I cum. Had to do it at work multiple times. It can be awkward at work with a raging hard on way to bathroom tho lol

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Retiredteacher67 in reply to Hidden

Great stress relief.

I’m the same, but it’s temporary relief. Orgasms release hormones and neurotransmitters into the body that give a sense of calm and euphoria. That and the body has evolved to divert attention and resources to procreation bc it perpetuates the species. In other words, getting “deep into the ‘bate” or “deep penising” (as some major masturbation proponents call it) can help give your brain and body a much-needed break from stress hormones. This is a good thing in the short term, but I wouldn’t recommend it as your sole coping mechanism that you use constantly for stress relief bc it doesn’t necessarily address the real cause of the stress and can be tough to maintain. Can’t speak for most but at my age I can only cum maybe 5-6x a day maximum and most people don’t have the time for that!

Thorskin. Read your post about surgeries. Was circumcised at 40. I love it. Skin was always tight. Now I have a beautiful mushroom head. Surgery was easy. Recovery easy. Did have pain first night after surgery. Never realized how many times I got erect while asleep!

Wow congratulations man! Glad to know I’m not too behind at the age of 38! I’m fortunate not to have the tightness or too much skin that gives some guys chronic problems. but I’m definitely ready to be clipped back tight and foreskin free. All I need is the shroom and the shaft. Send me a direct message if you don’t mind me asking some questions about your experiences before and after

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