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Have you ever talked about masturbation or jerking off with a family member?

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Jmerrick22

I’m curious and have another male cousin my age, and I kinda wanna see if he does it but idk how to like ask him without being blunt. Have you ever done this?

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No never with another guy or anyone in fact, although I’d like to, don’t know if I could....

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Mia898 in reply to Hidden

Maybe just ask if you want to . I get it maybe hard for you !

Firstly I am female but just be blunt and ask your cousin take it from the females all of us ask questions between ourselves we over share so I do not see why you cannot be blunt . If you do not ask you will never get an answer all the females ask the weirdest questions and we overshare . Good luck just ask .

I wouldn't ever talk about that kind of things with a family member because I simply wouldn't feel confortable as honest as I am with it. However, I do discuss this with friends.. Tbh, I wish they could join me but I wouldn't do it on the phone as they would think that.

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I'm lucky to have a very open family, knew about masturbation growing up having older brothers.

Ask him. You will never know until you try. He might like it.

You can compare the size and shape of your genitals. Also compare techniques for masturbating.

Please keep us posted

Have a contest and see who cums first or last. Who has more cum?

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Jmerrick22 in reply to BobJensen

I kinda like that idea. I think experimenting with someone you trust is the best.

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BobJensen in reply to Jmerrick22

Keep it private. Nobody needs to know.

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UncutBoy in reply to BobJensen

Sounds like fun....

Compare your favorite lubricants.

Uncut boy. Any ideas?

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UncutBoy in reply to BobJensen

He might like talking about it as well 👍

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BobJensen in reply to UncutBoy

Yes.

Yes I have - he was fine about it!

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Jmerrick22 in reply to Jacob26

IM thinking watch a porno together if possible then start saying something like If I was home I’d be taking care of business and go from there

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Jacob26 in reply to Jmerrick22

That’s how it pretty much started with us. Just watched a porno and I “joked” about wanting to have a wank. One thing led to another - he was open to the conversation and even jerked off together. Only happened once and don’t think it would again but was great to experience that!

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UncutBoy in reply to Jacob26

Sounds good 😉

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BobJensen in reply to Jacob26

Great. I am glad you tried it at least once.

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Jacob26 in reply to BobJensen

Thanks Bob!

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BobJensen in reply to Jacob26

You're welcome.

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BobJensen in reply to Jacob26

I was just curious. How old are you, if you don't mind telling us?

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Jacob26 in reply to BobJensen

Hello, I am 26

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BobJensen in reply to Jacob26

Thanks.

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Garrett0606 in reply to Jacob26

When in our early teens An older brother and I shared a bedroom. One night he asked me to swap blow jobs. We did it infrequently a few times over the years until about age 14 or 15 and we started going with girls. Also swapped blow jobs and jerked occasionally with a couple of neighbor boys between ages 13 and 15. We looked at female porn as a stimulus (or as an excuse) and then do it. We were shy about the oral sex, and would count out the seconds to 15 while doing it. We were afraid to think that we would appear queer to each other if we did it very long. However we would then jerk off to female porn. and sometimes even jerk each other off. It just seemed to stop at about age 15. I think it was a part of growing up.

I did the same when I was younger, with friends since I didn't have a brother. There were a couple of us all close in age. We all enjoyed giving each other oral. Stopped when high school started.

Thanks for sharing.

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Garrett0606 in reply to Jacob26

At this point in your life have you repeated a jerk session with another guy? Do you think it’s ok for buddies to share porn and do that? I’m married but it sounds like some fun repartee—

Great idea. See what happens.

Intriuging proposition. Ask him and see what happens

This is my favorite quote.

If you don't go after what you want, you'll never have it. If you don't ask, the answer is always no. If you don't step forward you're always in the same place." By Nora Roberts

I masturbated in front of my (female) cousin a few times when we were teenagers. She was a year older than me. If I’m honest I can’t really remember how it started but that sort of exploration is just something that kids do and nothing to be ashamed about. She didn’t reciprocate in quite the same way although there was some level of mutual exploration of each other’s bodies that went on, and we asked each other a lot of questions. We still have a great relationship and it’s not something that either of us feel the need to mention. I doubt she even thinks about it more than 30 years later.

Only you will know your cousin well enough to be sure if it’s a good idea to ask, but I would do just that - ask. If he’s a good friend then he won’t be offended but he still may not want to discuss it. You’re only proposing an exchange of views and ideas, not suggesting you get physical with each other.

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