Sad

[kazy09]

It's my birthday today. And I'm so sad we were going to the cinema an s meal. But my partner hasn't spoken to me All day, he has been in bed most of it, I feel so hurt especially after all we have been through I thought he would spoil me or at least notice I was here. I'm so lost ..

[JanetBob]

Oh dear you are both really going thru it. Your partner needs to talk to someone asap can u arrange for the cardiac nurse to come and talk to him? I hope all is ok soon x

[kazy09 in reply to JanetBob]

Hello yes I can try that thank you. But in my head all I want to do is escape for a couple of days, as I don't want my life to be like this forever my children know I'm sad an they can't believe that after I saved his life he is like this. X

[Andyman in reply to kazy09]

Yeh we all got down. But it didnt turn me into a heartless idiot. Go take your break. I know it sounds a cold thing to do but hey we all deserve to be happy. And because you are his support it includes you.

[kazy09 in reply to Andyman]

Already packed an now I'm off for few days. Thank you for an honest opinion x

[sca2013]

By the way Happy Birthday to you! Since you have no control over how your partner is going to be, take care of yourself. Fill your own cup, have some fun and joy, and do what you need to do to feel as whole as you can without them. It should make it so you can deal with who they are now. Here is hoping things improve for you.