I have been pretty down on myself lately, I've been living with my ex husband since a year after our divorce. I don't know if he's doing this out of spite , or if he doesn't really understand my symptoms from RA. Lately I've been extremely exhausted, to the point I'd sleep the entire day away , I feel weak , no ambition to do anything. Then out of nowhere I have energy, waking up at a decent hour, getting much needed things done . I've been going through this my entire life , even before I was diagnosed with RA in 07. He upsets me so much when he tells me I have to push myself to do certain things, it's to the point , I'm depressed, and I have been considering asking my Dr to put me in assisted living. There is nothing I can do when I am feeling that bad , and he doesn't understand, by pushing myself , I may make it worse for myself. Does anyone have any advice in how I can deal with this situation?