Our PSP Journey is Over: My husband Gerald... - PSP Association

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Our PSP Journey is Over

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My husband Gerald lost his battle with PSP Monday afternoon with his sister, our son and myself by his side. I had stayed with him the entire night and sometime in the early morning hours he rallied... told him, I'm here and that I loved him and miraculously he was able to form the words "I love you" and repleted it several times! He had not been able to communicate for the last 3 months. He even rubbed my hand with such intent, it felt like he was free from the grips of his horrible disease, if just for a minute. The road was long he battled in one way or another for 15 years. My prayers are with everyone here on the forum and I will always be here for all. Hugs to all. Jeri

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Tippyleaf

So sorry for your loss, how very special to have one last ‘I love you’

Sending love and hugs

Tippy

Sorry for your loss.x x

Sorry to hear. It’s a hard thing to experience.

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RunPeace

So sorry for your loss. So much love on those last moments...

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Katiebow

Sorry to hear your news, especially so near to Christmas. You will treasure those final hours with him when he was able to communicate his love for you, wonderful.

Live Kate xxx

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SewBears

I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m pleased that Gerald was able to communicate with you up to the last minute. Something for you to be able to cherish. I hope that you will be able to get some rest now that you know he is at peace. My thoughts are with you during such trying times.

❤️ from I SewBears

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Heady

Sending big hug and much love

Lots of love

Anne

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Dadshelper

You have my deepest condolences. He can now rest in peace and you have his last words to remember always.

Ron

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AnneandChris

Oh Jeri

Sending love and hugs to you at this time. PSP is so cruel.

Anne x

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Hiking13

Thinking of you at this difficult time and glad that his passing brought you some peace and that he was able to communicate with you. Sending lots of love and hugs

Sarahxxx

A big hug Jeri!

Luis

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Railfan

My heart aches for you but rejoices for Gerald's freedom from his suffering. I am so glad you received the final bit of love he was able to give to you.

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georgeg25

My sincere condolences to you and your family. May he Rest In Peace. 💔💔🙏🙏

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Brenive

Sending you and your family my condolences ...Brenda xxx

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daddysgirl1916

My love and prayers are going out to you, my dads battle ended with CBD on 29th November and he said he loved me too, as clear as day. It will forever stay with me.

Xxxxxx

Sending Gentle Hugs... Granni B

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Spiralsparkle

Sorry to hear of your loss & long 15 year journey.

May those last I love yous and hand rubs be the light that helps you during your dark times with grief.

Sending massive hugs

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Bipa

May his Memory be Eternal. No suffering, no pain.

May the Good Lord guide you during this sad time in your life.

Hugs to you and your family💕

“My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family during this difficult period. May you find the comfort and peace knowing that your loved one is free of this dreadful disease.

Dee

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Marilyn_cbd12

Thank you for thinking of all of us at this time. Gerald's farewell was beautiful. Thinking now of Gerald's courage and your loss. With deep sympathy,

Marilyn

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mjtogether

My sincere sympathy to you and your family. It was so good that Gerald could rally and leave you with an I love you. Something he has probably wanted to say for a long time but just could not.

Many hugs to you.

Thinking of you at this sad time.

It was lovely to hear you both managed to say those three words, a lovely thing to remember.

Take care

Sue x

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Nanny857

Jeri, my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. I'm glad you had such a lovely touching moment with your husband at the end, something to hold on to and find comfort in as time passes.

Love, Nanny857xx

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Aryanti

sorry for your loss. He is now happy, free for any pains and discomfort after 15 years of battle

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Cazash

So so sorry for your loss. So special you had those final I love you’s. Priceless at such a sad time. If tears are diamonds you are rich beyond your wildest dreams now. Let them fall but catch them all as each one is a precious memory of your love for each other. Take time now to give yourself some me time as I know from our experience losing dad this summer you’ll need it to cope with the next few weeks. 15 years is a long long road full of joys and sorrows too. As we journey on now let your heart beat strong with his love inside you all. Gerald has reached the end of his road and another angel is born. Let him fly free at last from this horrid illness.

Keep strong ....

Hugs

Caz x

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BamBam28

Sending big hugs xx

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