Firstly please forgive me I've not read ANY replies yet to my previous post
My mum is in intensive care!! She has been operated on and has had part of her bowel removed and bugger me she had a hernia too!! They operated on that at the same time, mum is ok but very tired! Dad is NOT ok and very distraught! Me well I'm f*****!!
Obviously care for Dad of some description has to be put in place but I need to think this over carefully, I am unfortunately thinking a nursing home!
Chc/CCG are wasters and can only offer me 2 more 4 hours slots a week or change agency for a live in carer....
I just feel drained, totally drained!! X
Ps I will just say this, I believe that Psp has not helped in my Mum becoming so very unwell, so please ALL carers listen up!! Don't and I mean don't make the mistakes we have!! Get all the help you can and get it now! My mum is NOT out of the woods yet and I'm scared for everything!! Don't be us!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!