I've not had time yet to read/reply to other posts
I called 999 at 9am this morning and my Dear Mum is in hospital with a blood infection and possible bowel blockage which get this, may need to be operated on!!
I actually don't know how much more I can take....I'm absolutely f*****!!
So in desperation I've organised a Marie Curie nurse to come in tonight and watch Dad whilst I go upstairs and attempt to sleep!
Carer here all day tomorrow (at our expense) don't care bout that! I will then too and fro to hospital and home
My darling Dad is beside himself, he cannot understand what's happened to Mum as it seemed so sudden
God knows what the future holds? I'm at breaking point! X