Thank you all for your kind words and advice. Last night at 2am when mum awoke and realised the night nurses hadn't been, she telephoned them only to be told, my dad had been discharged??!! Mum told them they need to come n do a pad change and they did at 3am!
So at 8am this morning I've been on to DN, GP, clinical nurse at the hospice and the chc people. After much sodding about (with dn's and chc) I told the DN I've made a report and am going to contact cqc and pals, aha, quick change of heart from DN, no, please no,let us come and see you before this escalates, so a meeting with DN n their manager planned for next week! Chc haven't come back to me so I shall be lodging a huge complaint!
I've told DN I want to know whom discharged my dad because they have no right and have a duty of care!!
It's now 16.45 and I'm shattered after dealing with idiots all day! How dare they put us through this unnecessary stress?!
I shall update you all when I know more, all I know for now is someone is going to be feeling the wrath of my temper in the coming days! Oh yeah someone taking my messages at chc suggested a nursing home, over my dead body was my response and told them to note that up!! X