How would you deal with that?
Bear in mind this carer is v v nice, but.....she doesn't make much (hardly any) conversation with dad! And then she regularly drops off and snoozes! I really don't know how to approach this politely but I don't do 'polite' very well (in this kind of situation) so before I kick off, how would you approach this? X
Ps how do I know this you ask, because sometimes we stay in and potter doing chores around the house n that's how we know cos we've seen her!