Dn's just been n done pad change
Discussion again on comvenes
Mums tried them before on dad, no intervention from me at the time, because at that stage I wasn't 'in' on the conversation
Since then I've done all personal care with dad and by that I mean all!!
Tonight again dn's discussed convenes with me (mum upstairs, dad asleep)
I said look I have certain limitations and (it's) very inverted, hope your following? Aaaargh
So are we expected to fit it, no was the answer, they'd fit it every night n I suppose me/mum/the carers would remove in the morning
Remember dads doubly incontient so a nappy type contraption would still be required
I said I'll speak to the continence nurses tomorrow
I suppose my point is I don't really wanna fit it?!
Will a convene save dad getting soaking wet every night? T.shirt, pillows, bedding?!
He doesn't want a catheter!!