Ok up until 2 or so weeks ago I had amazing carers looking after dad....now they've changed, one is lovely and the other has 'attitude' that stinks!
I've tried 'very' hard being nice even bought em both flowers today to try and show our appreciation but she still does this attitude thing! Like she's in a rush, doesn't want to be here, sooooo.....this evening I asked her, if she's happy coming here,reply yes, ok, are you tired, do you need a few days off? I've got the weekend off she says
We have chc and therefore the 4 visits per day should be for one hour each time, on average they are never here more than 20-25 minutes but if a longer visit is needed (rare) they'll stay, but with a bit of annoyance from one of em!
I've told them tonight on each visit I WANT dads t.shirt and pillow cases changed due to being wet (urine) they left dad wet at 4pm today (clothes and pillows wise)!! My dad is NOT in a care/nursing home he is at home! And under my watch I wanted him treated properly!!!!!!!
Anyway the whole thing is starting to get right up my nose (that's being polite)
I've rang the agency and made my feelings crystal to the manager
Why are these so called carers doing a job when they don't really care? I HATE it!!!!
Any ideas of how I should approach this further welcome!!