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Why Isn't There a Gay Dating Site for Gay Men Who Have Had Prostate Cancer?

TucsonCowboy profile image
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Gentlemen, I read posts regarding the difficulty some of us have in dating.

Why isn't there a Gay Dating Site just for us? I am being serious!!

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willp4real

I have asked this question time and time again. Would it make sense to begin a getting to know you/me FB page or anything less complex than an APP. Just a thought.

TucsonCowboy profile image
TucsonCowboy in reply to willp4real

Agree! There are so many nice guys out there who are wanting relationships and would probably be great matches.

TimCo profile image
TimCo in reply to willp4real

Brilliant idea! A FB page could work. A big audience out there I just bet.

TimCo profile image
TimCo

Yes Tucson Cowboy there is Im certain many of us who would value and use it.

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Tall_Allen

There are:

cancermatch.com/

romanceonly.com/

pspedg profile image
pspedg in reply to Tall_Allen

Cancermatch is not taking new users

Darryl profile image
DarrylPartner in reply to pspedg

Just for the next few weeks. We will open for new users around thanksgiving.

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pspedg in reply to Darryl

Thank you for the update

TucsonCowboy profile image
TucsonCowboy

Thank you!! I did not know of these.

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Roverp6

Your so right , there are no sites in the UK ...and it’s very hard to meet anybody once they are aware of your health situation which in my eyes makes them very fickle.

Your a handsome man shame your not here in England , I wish you all the best

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brk55305

Totally agree. We all have the same issues and certainly would be understanding.

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EdinBmore

Malecare (malecare.org/) has a gay blog; exactly like this one. They also have blog for ED, non-advanced PCa, and other men's health issues.

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JinATL

I would love to find a good guy on such a site. It’s hard enough finding a guy. Even harder finding someone who understands bladder and prostate issues.

Darryl profile image
DarrylPartner

Malecare started CancerMatch.com in 2005. It’s got lots of gay, bi and men on the down low with prostate cancer looking for dates.

Darryl profile image
DarrylPartner

You’re all welcome to use m.facebook.com/gaymenandpro... as a meetup place

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PSV60

Thanks very much for this information.

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daveh121

It’s a great idea, and, I really like the photo! You and the dogs look pretty happy.

TucsonCowboy profile image
TucsonCowboy

Thank you for your response!! For present I am just chatting w/ guys on a FB site.

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ExPat193

I. Sorry I found this site too late. Appears no longer active

I was dx in December 2019. I could not get answers to my questions in the states n returned to Europe

I have since found some of what I was looking for here

I found n completed txs here n now stranded until safe to travel

Thank you for this site n more answers I sought

Ed in Netherlands

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spencoid2

Maybe you should look for a Chihuahua Daddies site. Might have more luck with that seeing what a devoted daddy you are.

JPnSD profile image
JPnSD

I was wondering if you had found any other PC Gay Dating resources since your post 9 months ago? I'd be interested in learning about them. Thank you.

TucsonCowboy profile image
TucsonCowboy in reply to JPnSD

Thank you for your timely question. I tried all the various suggestions as to Gay dating sites for men with prostate cancer and simply encountered dead ends. Yes, there are dating sites and/or dating sites for Gay men but none that I could locate which were aimed at Gay men with prostate cancer. I also would still be interested in such a site.

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JPnSD in reply to TucsonCowboy

Yes...that seems to be the case. The usual sites for gay men are more focused on hook-ups....and the lengthy explanations of what P Cancer is and isn't usually results in a dead-end in the conversation. I wish you luck :)

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Horseman_

I totally agree I think it would be amazing to have a date with a fellow traveler. No one out there gets what it is like no matter how empathetic they are.. I believe it would take away so much anxiety too.

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TucsonCowboy in reply to Horseman_

(same update): Thank you for your timely question. I tried all the various suggestions as to Gay dating sites for men with prostate cancer and simply encountered dead ends. Yes, there are dating sites and/or dating sites for Gay men but none that I could locate which were aimed at Gay men with prostate cancer. I also would still be interested in such a site................ October 9, 2021 - additional: I am on a number of the Gay male FB sites. Guys communicate that they desire to date but seems not in this direction. I am honest and just have to accept that life is good. I desire to savor whatever happens and try to realize that my being a prostate cancer survivor does not define me. Yet I still hold out hope.....

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Horseman_

Many thanks I am very grateful to be as well as I am I use the pump and that keeps me from looking small ,I lost length and girth and I can orgasm albeit with effort. Its good to talk with others in the same place even just to normalize the feelings.

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