Just introducing myself here. I’m a 51 y/o gay man diagnosed with prostate cancer in May 2018. Elevated PSA (8.9) and Core biopsy Gleason score 7 (3+4). I under went a Radical Prostatectomy in August of 2018. My physical recovery is going pretty well... with the exception of a lingering UTI. I’ve had 5 courses of antibiotics and hope it’s finally gone. I feel like I had this major life changing event and basically was sent back to society totally unprepared to deal with living without a prostate as a formally sexually active single gay man.... I stumbled upon this site while doing a web search for gay men with prostate cancer on the web..... having a tough time 4 months post surgery mentally and am looking for suggestions on how to cope.