Hello, guys! There are some things I have questions about and I know coming here has helped tremendously.
I saw my surgeon for a follow-up appointment. He mentions that I should be (in most cases) not using the pads as much as I am now. I was under the impression that I would have to wear them for about a year. The other news is I did try anal with the toys and I felt somewhat comfortable doing that. Part of my mild depression was not being able to have sex again, so I thought I would check out how my body would respond to anal.
So here are the questions. Even though we're told to do Kegel exercises, do you feel that anal penetration is a hindrance to the recovery of the sphincter muscle? If so, should I stop anal sex? Has anyone tried the injection to the base of the penis for erections? Has anyone preferred the penis pumps? Orgasms are achieved, but erections are barely 40%. Does this improve with time?