I have been a caregiver to my aging and ailing parents (age 87 and 83) for the last couple of years. During this time of isolation that we are living through; the role of being a "caregiver" has been an eye-opening experience. There is "no manual" for being a caregiver. I was never fond of the word "caretaker" because I thought it was similar to the word "undertaker". It is amazing that when we become adults that the roles are reversed (our parents raised us when we were little) and now that we are the adults, we are taking care of them. As I look at this experience from a caregiver's perspective, I look at it with a lot of love and respect for my parents for their health, happiness, and well-being. And, it is very humbling for me and how this role as a caregiver has changed me as a person and humbled me as well. It has made me appreciate things a lot more and love my parents on a much deeper level than I ever thought possible.
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What a wonderful post Julester. You obviously love and respect your parents very much and they are lucky to have you. xx
It's really heartwarming to hear the way in which you express your love for your parents and of the care you willingly give them.
As well as a moderator at PWB, I do the same in the Care Community, which is a small group existing to offer support and advice to others in a similar position to yours. I wonder if you would consider joining us there too, as it's wonderful to have people who can speak positively about the role of carer, as it is a tough row to hoe and getting an insight from someone who is managing in such a supportive way would be lovely. We're to be found at:
healthunlocked.com/care-com...
Hope to see you there! 🙏👍😊
Your parents are fortunate to have you dedicated to their care and well-being. Caring can be challenging and lonely so I hope you look after yourself too and get regular time off, even just an hour for a walk.
That's it you can only do the best that you can with what you know at that particular time and as long as you know you are doing your best then that's all that matters!
That is beautiful. You are right. Our parents nurtured and took care of us. It is only right that we do the same for them when they need it. Sadly, not everyone is as caring as you. Your parents are very blessed to have such a caring daughter. God bless you and your parents.
That's so lovely. I'm glad you have found the strength to be there for them.
A lovely post your doing a wonderful thing for your parents. And obviously getting a lot out of it. They will be so grateful
Hello Julester51
Yes being a caregiver can actually be a source of comfort. I have leukemia and helped take care of my mother-in-law with dementia. There is always someone worse off who can use your help. Blessing to you.
That is so beautifully written ❤️
As a single parent 30 years ago I cared for my Mother during the final years of her life while she suffered with cancer. I have never before or since had so much love flood into my life from the most unexpected sources. The more you give, the more you get returned, is so true.
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