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Aunty Bees Advent Calendar, Dec 10. IMPORTANT FIRE SAFETY INFO and Help for you to stay Fire Safe with Illness that you may not know.

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You know you have got a Chronic Health Issue when your next door neighbours house goes on fire , you live in a Semi Detached and you still wonder whether you should make the effort to get out of bed.

In all seriousness , this did happen to Me this afternoon. So, my Nativity post has been suspended for today for a far more important Safety Alert for any people with Chronic Illness that affects their Mobility , I would love to help people have a Safe Christmas and Year ahead instead .

Our lovely 96 year old neighbour , "Aunty" Bessie, fell foul of the howling gales when the wind caused a ' Blowout' down her Chimney , dislodged the coals and set fire to her bedroom carpet.

The rest of the Family were out , they have no Fire Extinguishers or Blankets , and because she had already been moved downstairs for the day and is Severely Immobile the only thing that she could do was ring the Fire Brigade and get rescued

She is literally riddled with the worst Arthritis of the Feet I have ever seen , all of her toes crossed each other creating two severely bent claws which she can only bounce on to get from chair to chair. Her Family live with her but we're all out at work and have not left their Contact Numbers in a visible place for her to call. So now , as though she hasn't been through enough she is sitting here with Aunty Bee, wrapped in blankets on my sofa with a strong cup of Tea.

One bedroom Fire and Water Damaged but luckily no real damage and everyone is Safe and Alive , but you can understand why it made me stop and think.

The Fire Assessor from the Incident Engine came to the House , as is Standard, afterwards to double check the Fire Precautions that Locals have in their houses.

And I discovered some surprising facts , but also didn't let the poor Firewoman go until I had found out what was available to Us as sufferers of Chronic Health Issues that can affect our ability to escape a Fire and I got some useful , simple tips to make your home Fire Safe , not just at Christmas but all year around without causing us extra Stress or a potential Injury while following them. So below are the things that will help to keep you Safe and Well from Fire .

🔥 FIRE SAFETY EVERYDAY🔥

The Firewoman said that all people should leave their keys in all their door ( unless they can be reached via a letterbox) or hanging next to the doors at night to make sure you can exit your Home quickly in the event of a Fire. And window lock keys should be left on the ledge in each room that has one in case windows become the only escape exit.

And make sure everybody living or staying with You knows the quickest way out of your Home at night from their bedrooms .

MR. Yellow bluebell also reminded me to put this at the top of the list.

🔥 SMOKE ALARMS🔥

Make sure you have working Smoke Alarms on both floors and in Fire Vulnerable rooms , eye: Kitchens .

Shockingly the Firewoman said that new protocol is that Smoke Alarms should be checked every week , not just once a month. You , like Me , with the PMR Polywobbles shuddered at the dangerous thought of having to get up on a ladder or chair , but don't worry , you don't have too .

The Fire Service offer Detector Prodders for Free to anybody with a Disability or Mobility Issues so you can contact them and request one to do this job easily. They will check your alarms when they deliver one.

🔥HOME SAFETY CHECK : UK it's called , The Safe and Well Scheme 🔥

Get your whole Home Fire checked ( you can request them to bring your Prodders on the same visit ) by calling you Local Fire Service to do a Home Visit. If you need new Smoke Alarms they will provide them for Free.

You can get the phone number via the fireservice.co.uk website , look under Fire Safety on the list you will also find lots of different types of Fire Safety Downloads , including for Landlords and Rented Accomodation to help you.

Just putting in the name of any town into your web search engine or checking local service info may also be a little easier. Or in the UK , freephone , 0800 169 1234 , and let them know your Health issues and need for the Disability help advised in this post too. They will book you in and give you all the advice you need.

🔥Get on the LOCAL FIRE ATTENDANCE PRIORITY LIST 🔥

The Firewoman helpfully told me that anyone with an illness that can affect their mobility or thinking skills or over 65 can contact their local Fire Service in the UK and request for their address to be added on the Fire Service Attendance Priority List.

This gives the Fire Crew an alert if you call for assistance with a Fire or Fall to know that you may have difficulty with escape or getting up and they get to you much sooner. Our neighbour is on this List which is possibly why the Engine arrived before we even smelt the Fire . It also meant that far less damage was done to her property than what could have happened .

🔥 TELL THEM YOUR BURNING : Garden Waste / Bonfires🔥

Many of you may consider burning Garden Waste or having a Bonfire at this time of Year but I bet you didn't know that you can make your Local Fire Services job easier by letting them know. Your Area Fire Service will have a phone number that you should call before you have a fire to let them know you are doing it , so that if they get a Call about smoke or fire from your house from a Local Neighbour , they call you to check it is in control or if you want them to come to put it out safely when you finish burning stuff. It also saves them sending out the Van unnecessarily.

🔥Check your Gas Boilers and Electrical Devices ( especially Tumble Dryers , ovens) regularly.🔥

If you are not able to do it yourself get a more able Friend or Family member to take charge of this , empty your lint holder and wipe the oven to stop a build up of Fat or Food that can catch fire.

Some local charities and churches do actually have volunteers that will come and help you clean your ovens and hard to check electrical equipment to keep you safe.

Just ring a local group and ask you will get someone who will heed the call.

🔥WOOD BURNERS / OPEN FIRES🔥

If you have open Fires or Woodburners they need to be checked every six months and cleaned regularly . Often it is build up of soot in the Chimney that will get Santa stuck or cause a House Fire . The type of fire that will damage the structure of your House.

You need a Fire Guard and full length fire retardant rug at fires that are in near contact with carpets and other rugs.

You need a fire extinguisher and fire blanket close to hand for your House so you can quickly stop a fire before it spreads . The Fire service suggest these for the kitchen too.

🔥CHECK THOSE LIGHTS !!! Christmas Lights and Glowing Decorations 🔥

Always switch your lights off when you go out or go to bed . It may seem like a lovely thing to see the fairy lights on in your windows , it won't feel so good if you return home and find the house on fire instead.

Check Lights are of correct Safety Standards from the label on the wire or plug.

Don't use any lights with frayed cables or broken or dead bulbs.

Never overload sockets.

Do not plug lights in the same socket as computers , TVs , and Big Electrical Equipment items. Do not use those multi plug in socket adaptors but use the socket extension cables with a breaker instead.

🔥CANDLES, TEALIGHTS and LANTERNS🔥

Never leave a candle , even a tea light unprotected or unattended , even next to the bath. They may look lovely or help your Health but they are the biggest Danger of the lot .

Burn tealight candles in a proper container. Put them on a stable service in a votive jar , little glass or lamp. Candlesticks and candleabra should only be used at dinner tables and put out as soon as you leave the room. Candles falling from candlesticks or tealight near fabrics are a main cause of Modern Day Fires.

If you are going to fall to sleep you should put off your candle properly before you do

It is better to use a candle lighter , or at the least extra long safety matches to stop dropped matches from burnt fingers burning your carpet.

📲☎🚒📛🔥EMERGENCY NUMBERS🔥📛🚒☎📲

Bessie can not use a Mobile Phone , not even a big button or voice activated one. We had no numbers for her Family and she had to ring 999 as the Local Number was not written near her phone . This could have caused delays and has caused her great distress.

Please , put all your local emergency services contact numbers , and your Family or Friends contact numbers on a little sign next to your Phone or hanging in a visible place in your Hall . No matter how old you are , with Chronic Illness you may Fall or have a Medical Emergency which means you cannot tell others your details or be able to find a phone book.

Make sure everybody whom regularly visits your House knows where it is , then when Emergency Services need to be called or Call for You they can contact people without delay or having to rely on getting numbers from You.

Dont worry or get Stressed by this advice , by following just some little tips you can Stay Safe this Christmas and all Year long , without missing the warmth or cosiness of a crackling fire or candle or two

Back tomorrow with Fun folks , hugs Aunty Bee xx

The photo is of fireworks and the last burning embers if a Wicker Man at the Green Man Festival back in 2013. Look at the height of him !

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SheffieldJane profile image
SheffieldJane

Thank you for putting this together for us Bee. It’s one of my major fears. I even smell smoke when stressed. Nothing is burning, all in my head. Xxx

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Blearyeyed in reply to SheffieldJane

A few people get that , it's the brain believing it is experiencing smells that we associate with Fear when we are Stressed.

I hope this helps you get in touch with the people locally that can put your mind at rest and feel safer , all year round , not just at Christmas. Stay safe xx

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SheffieldJane in reply to Blearyeyed

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Good advice!

I was happily burning stuff in the garden, all proper using an incinerator, when the local firies came to play because someone had reported smoke. I asked about calling them to warn them the next time but they told me not to bother as if someone reported it they had to respond. Maybe it has changed or varies from brigade to brigade - seems sensible, though maybe the call is for next door? But we all know the firies love to play safe games - and now they don't get to cut as many roofs off cars they need some entertainment...

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SheffieldJane in reply to PMRpro

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Blearyeyed in reply to PMRpro

Yes , it could and services do vary from Country to Country , although while I checked on the internet I did see that most Countries and Individual State Fire Services or Local Councils do actually have these alert numbers and Mobility Priority Lists and Home Checks that you can ring for , I just included the UK numbers but finding out your local contact is the best way to make sure you get it done.

I think this Firewoman probably only told me so much useful information because I asked specifically for help so that I could write the post , it was the Driver whom told her about the Garden Waste Burning Service , so maybe they don't all know . They apparently set it up specifically so they don't need to go out to a call that they don't have to potentially taking a Engine from a real Emergency , so it helps them too.

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Yellowbluebell

Well being married to a retired fireman means where ever we have lived the house is subject to a fire risk check. Our daughters homes have also been subjected to these checks. OH prods our alarm once a week without fail. If our alarm dares to go off (usually when i grill stuff!!) i see him move quicker than he has for years.

The two things he wants to add to this warning is if you lock your door make sure the key is either in the door (only if not reachable by your letterbox) or nearby in a position everyone knows. The other is make sure you know your way out of your home in the dark. YBB

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Blearyeyed in reply to Yellowbluebell

Thank you , thank you ! I knew I had forgotten something , the Firewoman did tell me this info on the keys and I meant to include it .

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Yellowbluebell

Just make sure they are not easily reached from the letterbox or by breaking a small window. Ours live in the door!!

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Blearyeyed in reply to Yellowbluebell

Ours live in the door too , she was impressed , until she saw that you need a knack to open it , that's a job to sort !

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Marcy47 in reply to Yellowbluebell

We can't leave our keys in the door as OH has an alarm to press when I am out and responders couldn't get in with the spare key if there is one in the lock. They are hanging on a hook nearby.

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Yellowbluebell in reply to Marcy47

Thats the ideal place for you. You have to adapt according to your needs. As long as everyone knows where they are and they cant be reached by someone putting hand through letterbox or by breaking a window then its perfect. X YBB

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Highlandtiger

Excellent post, thank you. Important things to consider. Glad everyone was ok although it must have been very frightening. x

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Blearyeyed in reply to Highlandtiger

The most awful part of it really was that she could not contact her Family , if we had not been there to help the Fire Service would have had to take her to Accident and Emergency or Police Station , or had to waste lots of time trying to find them , time when they should have been busy with Emergencies.

Her evil SIL came to collect her from Us only half an hour ago , and actually refused to give me his contact details for the future saying if it was too much bother for me to take her in he'd tell her to find someone else in future.

He then went to take her outside in the storm with no coat , in socked feet without her wheelchair.

I perkily asked them to 'Hold on a moment ' and whispered to him if he didn't go and get her coat and chair the next number I would be searching for would be Social Services. He went for the Chair and pretended to be smiling , but for my own Stress levels as much as the poor ladies Health , I think I will have to see if something can be done for her.

One bedroom destroyed , unfortunately , it is her bedroom .

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Highlandtiger in reply to Blearyeyed

What a dreadful person. And how exactly was she to find someone else if you’d not been around? Really, you despair sometimes. 😡

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Blearyeyed in reply to Highlandtiger

Yes, I know , he's 6 ft5 , I'm 5ft8 , but I'm hoping I got the message across when I'd finished.

Just imagine him as being told off by someone with the perky appearance of Joyce Grenfell yet the calm , whispering psychotic tone of Hannibal Lecter as they reach your ear. I think he shuddered in his work boots.

And people wonder why my children were so well behaved !😋😂😂😂

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PMRproAmbassador in reply to Blearyeyed

Vulnerable adult there methinks. What a sod ... (that is what the s stands for?????)

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Blearyeyed in reply to PMRpro

Yes , I have always checked in on her before but I'm not up to it as regularly now and knew nothing about how unhelpful they would be in an emergency .

I think I will contact the other neighbour whom keeps an eye on her and see what her opinion is about what to do next.

She would be better off in a Home now really but she owns the House so I think they would put her Care below their wish to keep free accomodation as they would be scared she might need to sell up if she went anywhere.

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PMRproAmbassador in reply to Blearyeyed

I don't think they can force that if it is someone's home - but they might claw the costs back when she dies. Either way, they are likely to lose out.

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Longtimer in reply to Blearyeyed

Sounds like he didn't want Bessie to have his number....poor lady......

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Blearyeyed in reply to Longtimer

What suprised me was that she didn't have her daughter's number either , yet she always used to strike me as a nice person , except for her choice in Men.

I have literally just had a quiet knock on the door and the daughter has dropped her mobile and work number in on a piece of paper through the letterbox and just run off.

Not expecting a sorry or thank you , but she could have stopped to talk just to find out the facts and tell me what they would do to help Bessie at home in future. She definitely can't be left in a house in charge of open fires anymore and they have no other heating , especially with two out of control , and quite aggressive border collies that they own, it's just another accident waiting to happen. Such a shame really .

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Longtimer in reply to Blearyeyed

Certainly is a shame....it sounds like they really don't want to know...after all why would they leave her all day with no contact numbers....poor lady would be better in care, but I'm sure she would get talked out of it!......

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Blearyeyed in reply to Longtimer

It's a great shame she is such a lovely soul. We actually moved in here on this exact date 13 years ago and as we did she came around with a plate of sausage rolls and mince pies and big mugs of tea for Us and the Movers . We were firm friends ever since. But after her husband died suddenly years ago , the SIL moved in with the daughter shortly after and everything has gone down hill for her from there. I hope there is just a little something we can do to make things safer for her in future.

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Longtimer in reply to Blearyeyed

Good idea of Highland tiger.....after all it`s her mother not his!....he`s probably like a lot in this world now....likes control! Good luck keep us posted.

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Highlandtiger in reply to Blearyeyed

Oh. Has she maybe sneaked out to yours without her dreadful husband knowing......? At least you have her number now. Maybe you could call her at work once this has blown over to discuss while he’s not around?

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Blearyeyed in reply to Highlandtiger

Good idea , didn't think of that , that's exactly what I will do , thanks Tiger x

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Yellowbluebell in reply to Highlandtiger

I think husband is annout and out bully and she scared of him

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PMRproAmbassador in reply to Blearyeyed

Um, the younger lady's behaviour sounds like that of the product of an abusive relationship. Not saying it is but it has to be looked at for the older lady's sake.

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Blearyeyed in reply to PMRpro

You aren't wrong Pro , she was always a bit of a mouse but at least a smiling one but the way she scurries past head held down now and even when you spot her in the garden from the upstairs window hanging out the washing it's obvious that that is a person whom isn't being treated right. Not physically but Mentally , it's hard to know how to help though really.

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PMRproAmbassador in reply to Blearyeyed

Police and vulnerable adult ...

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Yellowbluebell in reply to Blearyeyed

Remember the law changed to accept that mental bullying is more rife nowadays and in some places is more prevalent than physical abuse. My opinion is report it if you feel up to it but make sure you cant get bullied by him as he probably wont think twice about moving his aggression to you.

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Yellowbluebell in reply to Blearyeyed

I suspect creep of a husband is a bully all round and shes given it to you quietly in case shes found out.!!

Thank You Bee. Excellent Advice for Young & Old.

Keep Safe Everyone.

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scats

Our smoke alarm is tested every time my husband makes toast!

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Blearyeyed in reply to scats

Yes , we had an incense related incident upstairs at one point as well , that will teach me to to try some tips from those Mindfulness websites .

Not so relaxing when you have to get up off your Yoga Mat to bounce around on one leg trying to hit your smoke detector with a massage stick I can tell you!😋😂😂😂

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scats in reply to Blearyeyed

Yet another good use for a walking stick!

Failing that a tall son is useful.

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Blearyeyed in reply to scats

Actually the massage stick worked better as a smoke detector Prodders than it did for my back , so at least it won't go to waste.

Plus the rest of my Family are all shorter than Me , until PMR/ GCA I was the ' Go To' Smoke detector and other Tall Object Turner Offer !😋

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scats in reply to Blearyeyed

Just my dad's good old fashioned wooden walking stick. If I'm not using it, it hangs below the smoke alarm for all to use as a prodder. Non slip rubber end helps too.

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Blearyeyed in reply to scats

It's another handy use for our Nordic Poles too!

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Longtimer

Excellent advice....I have in the past read the police saying not to leave keys in doors especially at night, too easy for burglars....can't win can we!....

Good that Bessie is safe...

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Blearyeyed in reply to Longtimer

Yes , I will remember to add in as long as the key cannot be reached through your letterbox.

Luckily mine can't do it stays in the door , I keep the keys in the patio and back door too and a key on each window ledge for the window locks and didn't mention windows so will edit that in.

Thanks LT xx

in reply to Blearyeyed

When I had my house renovated (euro grant for area) they put a fire lick on. I wasn't happy at first but it hasn't been a problem so far. No keys from the inside at the front and no letter box at the back. 🚪👀

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Fire Lick??

in reply to Blearyeyed

🤣😂🤣 Fire lock.... Don't know if it's called that really. I didn't feel secure but it has stood the test of time.

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Of course , Doh! Brain Fog , Bee !!

I thought it might have been some sort of technical term for that sort of fire tape people sometimes have on doors and edges of rooves!

in reply to Blearyeyed

🤣😂🤣

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I think it makes it more secure because I don't have a big set of keys hanging on a chain in my door latch , just the one door plain key and no key ring , so it isn't visible in any way through a window .

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Louisepenygraig

What a day! I hope you'll have a quiet day to recover tomorrow. Lots of good advice there, I feel sorry for your neighbour and her daughter though. The winds have been terrible haven't they.

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Blearyeyed in reply to Louisepenygraig

As bad as I've ever seen it here , especially this lunch time when all of this Fire thing kicked off. The ' Bin of Doom ' even tried to hide down by the side of the garage , which was better than it trying to break into the house like usual.

My workshop door , I now discover , has blown in , and so poor Mr. Bee had to spend two hours in torch light fixing it as he couldn't turn the lights on as the fuse box is near the door.

How about you ?

Any Carnage on the mainland , or is it like it was on Sunday and a little lighter over there?

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Louisepenygraig in reply to Blearyeyed

Probably lighter than on the Island but still very strong. We're quite sheltered from the West but when it's southerly, as it was this morning. We have three trampolines in our front field which are usually ok but this time the smallest one had blown over. Over the years there have been enough rocks, tyres and paving stones added to sheds and chicken houses to hold the roofs down (we hope!)

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Blearyeyed in reply to Louisepenygraig

😂😂😂😂😂😂

Sorry I couldn't help laughing when I read your message and read you had three trampolines in your field !

First , I thought no wonder you are getting tired if you are out there doing acrobatic flips back and forth on those , not exactly PMR friendly !

Then , I thought , perhaps you were out practising to bounce your way over the River to visit Me , in which case , I'm very impressed with your efforts , but you might want to use the train instead!😋😂😂😂😂😂

Chuckles and jokes , that's cheered me up after today , thank you xxx

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Jackoh

Thanks for the wealth of information Bee x

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linda49

Lots of great information there BE.

I think I will contact our local fire service as we had a stairlift installed in the summer after my acute episode when I couldn’t manage the stairs. We live in a 3 storey town house. The stairlift is powered electronically and works quite slowly meaning I would have difficulty getting out quickly in the event of a fire. It would be reassuring to have them come and discuss a plan for “just in case”. And a prodder for fire alarms would be good too ………

Many thanks.

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Blearyeyed in reply to linda49

Definitely get an assessment , get your 'prodder' and ask them to put you on the Fire Priority List as having a chairlift there is definitely something they would want to know , and it could make it more difficult for you to evacuate your home as quickly as you would want to. Glad I could help.

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Pixix

How sad. Excellent post, thanks. Many good pointers. One thing strikes me...I insisted we fit smoke alarms here, and they work...when the toast burns, we know one does! They flash a light at regular intervals so I check that. However they’ve been fitted about four years now and we never change a battery! Um food for thought? Should we just change them now? Will prod them today! Glad it was put out do fast but dreadful man refusing to give you details, treating her so badly. Makes my blood boil. Thanks again and have a quieter day today.

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PMRproAmbassador in reply to Pixix

Some have 10 year batteries nowadays - usually lithium batteries which are built-in and you replace the alarm rather than the battery. You need to check the destructions that came with it ...

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Blearyeyed in reply to PMRpro

Yes good tip Pro it does depend on the model you have as to how and what you need to do to keep them working.

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Pixix in reply to Blearyeyed

Will have David check it...stairs one is within easy reach. Lounge is above Christmas tree, but his steps are by the back foot for another small project! Thanks forcrepkies!

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Pixix in reply to Pixix

Thanks for replies that was supposed to read. Bad morning. Overdid it yet again. Not up yet!

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Blearyeyed in reply to Pixix

Good ! Hope you have a day of rest , and don't injure Mr. Claus while checking the smoke alarms make sure he can get up there safe or get a stick to prod it. Take care xx

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Pixix in reply to Blearyeyed

Whoops...finished running around at 4pm but did good things, like book assistance at airport for first time ever, book hotel night before flight so don’t have to get up at ungodly hour, plus Christmas decorating and delivering neighbour cards...all sorts, oh dear, rest tomorrow? Must vote, make a boiled fruit cake but getting through my list really well and Santa has been doing jobs all day, too! Rest is a four letter word seldom heard in our household but I realise this must change!

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Blearyeyed in reply to Pixix

Pixix you should definitely read the post today , who is the snowman ? Or remind yourself of the tips on Day 1 , I'm terrified with all this activity on top of the pain you are having that you will end up in bed by Christmas !

Don't forget with Chronic stuff like PMR , Rest is a 'good' four letter word , like Love and Hugs.

Pain is also a ' bad' four letter word that destroys everything and is the one you should be avoiding. Xxx

Thanks for the good Pacing tips about travel you have mentioned there so do expect a mention in my post on Christmas Travel if it is ok that I include your name.

Now , you and Mr Claus put your feet up , you deserve it after today xx

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Pixix in reply to Blearyeyed

Oh yes, to the travel bits...and for the first time I phoned our airline yesterday and booked a buggy ride down to the gate and assistance on way home. I’ve suffered and thought others need the help more than I do but now with poly as well I’m going for help! Bought a foldable stick as mine fell out of the luggage rack last time. They were so helpful, I’m glad I did it. I missed day 1 of advent will go seek. Dreadful night 3 hours sleep back pain leg muscle cramps lung troubles, I get sick in storms, allergy to moulds and spores which come out of the ground. As soon as the barometer hits 29 I’m in trouble. Today is bake cake, vote & rest! Thanks for your help!

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PMRproAmbassador in reply to Pixix

Recipe for the boiled fruit cake????? Loved it as a child - ours was eggless ...

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Pixix in reply to PMRpro

I will let you know if it’s any good...it’s a recipe from my Mum’s old cook book that she compiled through her life. Remember it as a child, it was great, but childhood memories not always correct!

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PMRproAmbassador in reply to Pixix

Your OH also a David? Some of came to the conclusion a few years ago that having a spouse called David was a risk factor for PMR ...

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Pixix in reply to PMRpro

Yes, but his middle name is an old family name ‘Burdsall’ and, of course, he happens to be Santa Claus, too!

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Constance13 in reply to PMRpro

Not mine!😊

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Blearyeyed in reply to Pixix

Just get a stick or something when you test them until you get a prodder , or get someone else up the step ladder !

If you have had them for four years and definitely haven't changed the battery in a year the battery does need changing even if the light still blips.

Save that job for when you get them checked by the Fire Service , tell them you think you might need replacements too , they will do that sort of maintenance for you so you won't cause yourself extra Pain or a Fall from trying yourself. Stay Safe xx

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PMRproAmbassador in reply to Blearyeyed

An alarm with a lithium battery is expected to last 10 years - and you replace the alarm, not the battery which is a fixture.

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Yellowbluebell in reply to Blearyeyed

The brigade will sometimes even send a pump around with a full crew to change your smoke alarms so be prepared wirh coffee and teas!! Firemen/women are always thirsty!!

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Roltuba

All good advice, what an experience. Just one thing.... if you leave the key in the inside keyhole of our doors, it’s impossible for someone outside to use a key to get in. We have those removable sticky hooks on inner doorframes. Thanks for your post, will buck our ideas up about contact numbers! Also ICE number on mobile ‘phones worth doing.

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Yellowbluebell in reply to Roltuba

My husband meant when you are all in the house rather than during the day when people are coming and going. If a fire strikes at night and you lose your lights you dont want to be rummaging around for keys. Which is also why he said for people to be able to know their way out of the house in the dark. I also pointed out to make sure the keys should not be visable or reachable from a letterbox or by breaking a small window. Safety is as important as fire precautions. Your key on the door frame sounds a good alternative as long as it cant be reached from outside. x YBB

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Blearyeyed in reply to Roltuba

Yes, it was advice for the night or when you lock up and prefer the door to be knocked. My Girls know when the key is in the door and know if they aren't home by then , they aren't coming in , or at least they will have some questions to answer!😋😂😂😂

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Evercurious

Thank you for all your advent posts, Aunt Bee. Love the common sense and humour.

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S4ndy

Thanks for the good advice from everyone.

I agree that Bessie appears to be very vulnerable. If it was me I would be tipping off the councils protection of vulnerable adults in social services dept. It would be completely anonymous.

I don't know if still available but the Lions Club supply little green tubs which contains stickers with a Green Cross on it and a form inside which you complete with all you medical details, contacts, meds etc. You then put it in the fridge and stick one of the the stickers on the inside of the front door and the other one on the outside of fridge.

Emergency services are aware of this scheme and will check for the stickers and look for the little pot.

It certainly worked for me when I had to call an ambulance and was in no fit state to relay info to them.

I think this scheme is available across all of the uk. I got mine from our pharmacy.

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Blearyeyed in reply to S4ndy

What an excellent tip , I will include in another post too , so it doesn't get lost in the replies , thanks Sandy xx

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Dewdrop456

Thank you Blearyeyed for all your time and effort that you put into giving us such good and helpful advice . I shall certainly try to follow it.

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