I am supporting my sister and a good friend who both have terminal cancer. I have talked about the problems about organising a holiday for her and the fact has now been sorted but the cost is above what we can all afford really. It does not just rain though - it pours. My brother has now had a heart attack. He has been affected so much by our sister that his own health has got worse and he apparently wrote a letter to our sister saying she would be better off dead as that is how he feels. Have tried to get him to counselling or support without success. I really do not need this as it is bad enough with my sister. She is getting none of the support she need and promises are broken so she is inconsolable to have a letter like that as well. How am I meant to cope with all this - even at the weekend my old computer was affected by a major virus and I lost over 4000 files through ransomware. I have chest pains and feel faint and there seems no end to it.