I have a question: are you all happily married? Your writing seems to say that you are. My experience with the opposite sex and my PD is difficult to put into words, and i'm a writer. I've been divorced for about 13 years and i find that its difficult to get a non-PD of the opposite sex to want to get involved with me. Very few women want to become caretakers and living with a PD wll take you down the 'dependent caretaker' road eventually. i'll ask about your sex lives at a later point. One step at a time.
LET'S STAY HONEST WITH EACH OTHER.