So, if I am understanding this PD thing correctly. To be a good wife to my husband I need to go without sex for the next 20-40 years. Never socialize with any friends...unless I do this on my own, so basically function as a single person. Never bother him with anything stressful (most of my life experiences). Work twice as much to make up for lost wages and exhaust myself by doing this. Become a shitty mother because I am doing above. Right?