I start then stop worrying about what the future holds? and i am in worryimg mode again. My husband is the pwp and into his 6th year, he seems to do ok but some days he seems to throw in the towel.
I try my best to keep him positive, depression seems to get him badly sometimes, and he requlary falls out of bed.
His specialist keeps asking regarding his memory, and seeing things that are not there, although his memory is failing, isnt all our memories failing due to aging?
My main worry apart from my husbands health of course is what will happen if things get out of hand for me to care, its a very scary feeling, and then i am told allsorts of different things about the government making you sell your property to pay for care? it worries me sick, and I just hope things never get to be that I cant manage any more.
I spoke to a solicitor to ask if the house could be put in my name to avoid this and i was told NO as they would realise the reason for doing this.
I also care for my husbands brother who is mentally handicapped (he lives with us) I suppose he would just have to go into permanent residential care???
Its so hard, you work hard all your life and whats at the end of it? no give at all just take take take, does any one have the same dreads as me? it would be nice to hear from you.