Absolute agony: Absolute agony - pain is worse... - Pain Concern

Pain Concern

38,218 members11,764 posts

Absolute agony

FFUDON profile image
19 Replies

Absolute agony - pain is worse than ever, I even struggle to type this message, nobody understands this

Written by
FFUDON profile image
FFUDON
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
19 Replies
Catmag profile image
Catmag

Sorry you're feeling so awful just now. I may not understand your specific pain, but I do know how constant pain is so difficult to cope with. 15 years of constant daily pain, that has worsened with accidents, more injuries causing even more pain, I can sympathise.

I presume you've gone through the usual meds, relaxation techniques & everything & anything you can think of to help?

I do hope you've managed some sleep by now (I haven't). Take care, I do hope today is better for you.

belle623 profile image
belle623

FFudon

I am sorry and saddened you are in pain. I emphasized with no understanding. I am glad you are reaching out to us; bc we don't you to feel isolated. Pain flate out sucks.

I have found some Pinterest boards about my chronic psin that are sarcastic and tongue n' cheak. But, get the point across. I send them to the individuals who have a hard time understanding. Sometimes it helps. And it makes me laugh.

Pls let me know if there is anything we can do.

Ash

Fusion83 profile image
Fusion83

I'm not 100% sure of what's going on there wasn't much in the post I will look again but I do understand you I take pain medication for 3 herniated disc they're just sitting on top of each other and it can be at times when I move a certain way or do something absolute agony I have not been able to walk because of it or almost even talk blood pressure through the roof heart rate tachycardic I know how you feel as much as I can I'm not in your situation everybody's different so I can only understand your pain as much as I can.without being in your pain I do feel really sorry for you I really do hope you get some help something changes I'll be on here if you need to talk I know that words don't help a lot but maybe for once they can maybe I can point you in the direction of some type of help I will do what I can

HostMom-1 profile image
HostMom-1

I have found an herbal powder that I use now, as with most docs, even the pain specialists are getting more & more limited on what they are "permitted" to Rx. All those who don't need the meds for real pain are being so limited by those who abuse, sell, etc.

I've been using Kratom powder, mixed in Chocolate pudding to help with the difficult times, especially when you can't sleep. Look it up on the internet, do your research & then decide. You don't have to use mail order, often carried by stores that sell herbal meds. This has helped me, I hope it may help you. Take care.

Steve49 profile image
Steve49

Hi.

I'm so so sorry for you, I will join you in "Pain" this mourning.

I do understand what you are going through.

Please let me know if I can help???

Steve.

Christy_R profile image
Christy_R

I know exactly how you feel...no one understands pain unless they've lived it day in and out over a long period of time. I can't sleep or move much when I'm in a flare...it's awful! Please let me know if I can help you but - also know that all that are on this site truly get you and won't turn a way from you in your time of struggle. Christy

Shooby profile image
Shooby

Oh my I'm so sorry you feel so horrendous, but take some solace in this group we are all here for each other to listen and to talk it does help knowing your not alone and you've made your first step just carry on we all listen and give back to each other take heart my friend

Sandra2468 profile image
Sandra2468

Just seen your message.

Beautiful day out there and a bunch of us scary unwell.

Your posting is short.

Like many I have suffered low back pain too 10 years+

Sometimes it is necessary to change GP to find a sympathetic person. Unfortunately now with the cut backs it is difficult to get the investigation needed.

Many of us are still looking for answers including myself as not everything is straightforward.

All I can say is be your own clinician.

And push for help.'

It is very easy for the doctor to throw out pain medication and tell you are depressed .

Be strong and try to take control.

By posting this message gives me strength and I hope you may be able to help others too.

Sandra

so sorry to hear you are in so much pain.you dont say much-what do you suffer from?i know what you are going thru.people here understand but none of my family do and friends only part understand.hope you find some relief.

deejames profile image
deejames

Hi Ffuden. Of course no one understands your pain but most of us have experienced pain as bad and the struggle to deal with it. Perhaps talking about the causes of your pain and how you try to deal with it will help us understand it and how to respond to you.

I hope your pain has become more manageable since you posted

Dee

Oma3 profile image
Oma3

The people on this site DO UNDERSTAND the Pain.

Orkney-fudge13 profile image
Orkney-fudge13

Sorry I don't know what's wrong but I do understand pain,ur not alone. Sending you a big :)) :)). :)) (Smiles). And sending you a big"air" hug as they don't hurt. X :)

Gforcemom profile image
Gforcemom

I do understand & I am sending you gentle hugs & positive energy 🌹☮

NFDK profile image
NFDK

Hope you are having a better day today. Wen x

johnsmith profile image
johnsmith

There is nothing to understand. Pain is only understood by those who are in pain.

Pain requires careful study by the person who has it. It requires investigation to see what makes it worse and what reduces it. Is it a muscle brain problem. Then you need to see an Alexandra Teacher. Drugs will not fix a muscle brain problem.

Is it a micro-cramp problem? Then a visit to a McTimony chiropractor will help reduce the problem. Drugs will not undo micro cramps even if the pain killer reduces the pain.

Is it an over contracted muscle problem? Over contracted muscles are painful. They need to stretched and this takes time and is a painful process. This suggests a visit to a skilled masseur or sports therapist who could stretch out some of these over contracted muscle. Yoga is a good discipline to take up. This helps with lengthening out muscle and enable you to network with other people.

Hope this helps.

hele22 profile image
hele22

I'm in agonising pain 24/7

Orkney-fudge13 profile image
Orkney-fudge13 in reply to hele22

Sorry I don't have a cure for you're pain, I have it 24/7 to so I totally understand how you feel but what I can do is send you :)) :)). :)) . (smiles) & a big "air" hug as they don't hurt . Fingers crossed you get a slight reprieve from your pain,my thoughts are with you X. :)

Letmein76 profile image
Letmein76

I understand!

FFUDON profile image
FFUDON

Things have eased, and I'm convinced the positive messages on this thread are partly responsible.

Genuine thanks to everyone for taking the time out, it is appreciated immensely.

Words aren't enough, but thankyou everyone.

You may also like...

I'm in agony, with Chronic Pain!

deteriorating? I have Osteoarthritis in it, & I am in agony 24/7. It's causing me so much...

I'm in agony with my lower back

unable to stand up or walk without feeling extreme pain on my lower back, I've been laying in bed...

6 months waiting list for my hip surgery in Harrogate and I'm in agony now!!

operation.I don't know how I will last that long as the pain is unbearable now.Any suggestions how...