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Off Topic sort of - earring backs

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Am finding earring backs too fiddly with my arthritic hands. As a result I have lots of pairs of earrings that I cannot wear. Has anyone found a solution to this problem?

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Neonkittie17 profile image
Neonkittie17

Yes my earrings like that are redundant now. The fine silver or gold hook ones are what I use. Danglers as opposed to studs now. Not sure unless someone else in the house (if there is) can put the backs on earrings for you, or If you know anyone who makes jewellery as a hobby etc and has a few plier, nipper tools etc, who can adapt the earrings. Or maybe a local jeweller who is more likely to give a more personal customer service could do this? I’ve some lovely silver and amber studs I wish I could wear and others too. Sorry my message zapped off unfinished, so I added to it.

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Wobbies in reply to Neonkittie17

Don't think my dogs paws are nimble enough to assist. 😆 It must be a problem for lots of people so you would think that someone would have invented special backs. That is what I am hoping for. Seems a shame not to wear all those earrings.

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Neonkittie17 in reply to Wobbies

Someone already has invented a device but it is American and says not for sale anymore! Maybe there are other similar things in the U.K. Must have a look.

Colour photo of earring stud aid/device.
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Wobbies in reply to Neonkittie17

Looked online and could only find a gadget to get the backs off. Pity as there must be a market for the gadget we need.

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Neonkittie17 in reply to Wobbies

The American device I posted a pic of looked quite good .. what a shame no longer available and not here. 🤨

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Tracy-NRAS in reply to Wobbies

What about the clear round plastic backs that are less fiddly, I've bought some of those and as I loose backs I replace them with the plastic ones that are bigger and less fiddly than the little metal ones

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Wobbies in reply to Tracy-NRAS

Oh, have seen those but did not think that they would be much better but if they are bigger, will give them a go. Thanks for the suggestion. xx

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KittyJ

I’m not sure if you’re talking about the metal backs but something like these might be a bit bigger to grip.

blomdahluk.com/product/earr...

I wear sleepers all the time now and don’t change them but I can see if you have lots of lovely earrings you’d want a better solution than mine.

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Wobbies in reply to KittyJ

It seems a shame not to be able to ear our earrings especially as many were bought for me as presents from various friends and family and contain memories. Thanks for that.

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nomoreheels

I don't have a solution for your existing earrings I’m afraid but for future info have a look at French clip backs. I have quite a few of this design (popular in Spain where they were purchased) & find them very easy to put on. Butterfly backs are a pain when you have dexterity problems, I empathise.

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Wobbies in reply to nomoreheels

Oh never heard of those but will give them a look. Thanks for that. This forum is gold mine of knowledge.

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nomoreheels in reply to Wobbies

You're welcome. I hope you find something that helps you. Maybe if you do you'll share it with us? Always looking for things to make life easier for everyone here.

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Oshgosh

Haveyouinvestigated the leaflets that come through the door.It’s a long shot,butthere May be a solution.

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Wobbies in reply to Oshgosh

Usually bin them but will now look at them as earring backs have become my quest. Good idea, thanks.

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Karen12

I don’t wear earrings, but as someone who makes jewellery for a hobby have you considered bending the stem at the end so it hooks over instead of using a clip? Not sure if that would be doable as the stem would need to be long enough I guess. You or someone who could do it would need a good pair of pliers....

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Wobbies in reply to Karen12

Tried but can' manage the pliers either 😀

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Sheila_G

I don't know if you can still get these but years ago I bought some clear plastic backs with a wider rim on them. They were much easier to use. Try googling them.

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Wobbies in reply to Sheila_G

Will give them a go. Found them on Amazon. Thanks.

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Dodo1943

I purchased some circular silver backs approx 1 cm wide from Gemporia several years ago as one of my lobes had stretched and my best earrings needed more support. The back of the backs [if you get my meaning] are butterfly foldbacks but easily gripped because they are secure continuation metal from the fronts.

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Wobbies in reply to Dodo1943

Thanks will look, another good suggestion.

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sylvi

I only wear sleeper type earrings now as i am afraid of losing the stud ones. I have a pair of sapphire ones that was my mum's and i daren't wear them in case i lost one. xxxx

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Wobbies in reply to sylvi

It is sad, isn't it Sylvi when you can't wear things which have a spiritual significance like something from your mother, dear friend etc. 😔

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sylvi in reply to Wobbies

It is what it is darling at least i have her wedding ring on a chain round my neck with my wedding set which i no longer wear due to good ole ra.xxx

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fred42

Another problem we all have. If I can pick the earring up I can usually use the larger plastic backs but some of my beautiful earrings are just to small.Hands so much worse since stopping MTX but stomach effects just too much.

We may have RA but still want to look nice!

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Wobbies in reply to fred42

Yes exactly. Also, I think for me it is a constant reminder of all the things that I can no longer do because of the disease even though they are really small things sometimes. You seem to have lost so much in small increments over time. Makes me sad.

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fred42 in reply to Wobbies

I agree totally but have to try and think positive as we cannot change it. I am just grateful for our lovely Rheumatologists who try so hard to make life better for us.

After nearly 10 years maybe I am beginning to accept my condition at last.

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Wobbies in reply to fred42

Yes it is strange. I think I have accepted my condition and then just something like not being able to manage my earrings sets me off again. After all, it is not the most important of things and I have adapted to lots of other things. Just a silly old person me. 😂😂

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Sheila_G

I hope you find them useful.

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oldtimer

I went over to using hook type earrings for a while, but I can't manage those either now.It's a shame - I remember getting my ears pierced after splitting up from my first husband who didn't approve of me wearing earrings (or shorts!). It was a liberating time all those years ago.

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Wobbies

Yes I think getting my ears pierced was one of the first things I did to rebel against my mother who said I shouldn't do it. A sign of my misspent youth.

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