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As a carer I was on night shift with my two co workers a lady was on palative care as the night went on the lady sadly stoped breathing had to perform CPR but sadly she died and doing CPR really starts the RA flare up but that the job I have and what I have to do I will really miss her and r.i.p my darling mazie it make our moans and groans so insignificant at times x

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3LittleBirds2

I’m very sorry to read your sad news.. you sound like a very good and caring Carer, who are worth their weight in gold. I hope your flare improves soon! 🤗

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Sunflower1977 in reply to 3LittleBirds2

Thank you wouldn't change my job for the world illness has to wait

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Pinkypie2018

How sad, an yes it does unfortunately. Must be such a distressing time for you, hopefully you feel better soon an the flare isn't too bad, take care an try taking it easy my thoughts are with you x

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Sunflower1977 in reply to Pinkypie2018

Thank you I love my job so much x

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rab1874

Very sad and you do a sterling job xxx

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Sunflower1977 in reply to rab1874

Thank you so much

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Gigi71

You sound a lovely person, a very sad time. Take care of yourself.x

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Sunflower1977 in reply to Gigi71

I will but it just makes me humble to be a carer and see people in need xx

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Cherub198889

So sad, but beautifully written. I want you to know that I deeply respect people who work in palliative care. You are an amazing person. Rest in peace Mazie. I will light a candle for her.

Take care

Sue

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Sunflower1977 in reply to Cherub198889

That is so lovely thank you she was a lovely lady with a great family and we had lots of laughter together

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Cherub198889 in reply to Sunflower1977

It's been over 3 years since my family said goodbye to my father in palliative care. What angels you are. Gosh, I don't know what we would have done without all the care givers support of my father & the family. You will always be thought of with love from Mazie's family....as my family will always cherish Alison.

All the best too you and I hope your flare settles.

Sue xoxo

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Sunflower1977 in reply to Cherub198889

Thank yiu

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Ruth12345

Oh, so very well done to do what you did and what you do. Be kind to yourself after such a challenging time.

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Sunflower1977 in reply to Ruth12345

Thank you

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Shalf

Remember the laughs and happy times. I have a good friend who does same line of work and also loves her job. You all are very special people. I'm sure Maize's final days/hours were filled with love and warmth.

Take care

Xxx

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Sunflower1977 in reply to Shalf

Many thanks x

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stbernhard

Thank you for caring. When my mother died one of the care workers said something I'll never forget. "We are carers, but first of all we are humans with all the feelings that entails". We should all think about that a little more often. Thank you.

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Sunflower1977 in reply to stbernhard

Yes we should hate it when you hear about bad carers as it type casts everyone of us x

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bencar

You're such a caring angel, wish there was a lot more like you in this world. Hope when, and if, I enter the world of Palative care, there will be someone like you looking after me, sending you hugs.

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Sunflower1977 in reply to bencar

Come to Stoke on Trent and I'll send you the name ill take care of u xx

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