Happy week 2 to me-cakes are on me

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And I managed to have two large glasses of wine yesterday(without smoking- Good)eating KFC instead (Bad)

And my ******* boss keeps giving me a hard time over NOTHING....I could potentially be sacked over some minor misdemeanour, such as wearing my name badge upside down. Never mind- didn't smoke.

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Did you not know that you are not allowed to use the :cool: icon if talking about or mentioning cakes?!! Goodness..... everyone knows that!

Congratulations on getting to week 2!! Sincerely hope you don't get sacked over a name badge!

Oh and watch the cake talk

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Hi Jude

Well done on getting to week 2 that's great Big Hug just for you

Thanks for the cakes they look really nice will have one later with a coffee

Glad you enjoyed a couple of glasses of wine smoke free YAY

Love

Marg

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a name badge upside down? what a petty boss that is. He didn't get laid the night before it seems

Honestly, that boss of yours seems like an utter idiot (i had tons of words to use instead of idiot there, but feel free to replace with a stronger word in your mind to suit) I think i would be jobseeking for the heck of it anyway in truth.

Nothing is worth psychological torture.

Stick to your no smoking though, that is the one thing you are going to ensure stays solid at the moment.

Don't let the bar stewards grind you down. :/

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Gets worse:rolleyes:

A colleague of mine told me he wants me gone so he can replace me with a friend of his (who is polish also, and has reduced mine and someone elses hours and given all of the nights to another polish friend, which i never agreed to. I'm not racist at all but he just wants all his mates there.) Now he's on at me for every little thing and i think he wants to make me actually leave. Another colleague has put in a grievance against him about his behaviour, and a customer also has compained ! I hope it's not long before he shoots himself in the foot. I know smoking doesn't help with stress , but i wanted one after hearing that, and i'm afraid i had one/some...But back again (to the day one folder)

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and i'm afraid i had one/some...But back again (to the day one folder)

Jude.... what are you doing??? Why do you put yourself through this torture???? Do you want to be a non-smoker? I think you do...... then you're going to have to do what a non-smoker does which is not smoke...... you let yourself have slips and then slap on a patch.... you avoid trying to really do the quit..... you will stay in this vicious cycle until you make the decision to break out of it. Stress sucks but a non-smoker does not smoke during stress...... you can totally do this, Jude..... I have total faith that you can..... I just wanted to point this out (sorry if some of it sounded harsh) Maybe take some time to think about this....

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Thanks bella

Jude.... what are you doing??? Why do you put yourself through this torture???? Do you want to be a non-smoker? I think you do...... then you're going to have to do what a non-smoker does which is not smoke...... you let yourself have slips and then slap on a patch.... you avoid trying to really do the quit..... you will stay in this vicious cycle until you make the decision to break out of it. Stress sucks but a non-smoker does not smoke during stress...... you can totally do this, Jude..... I have total faith that you can..... I just wanted to point this out (sorry if some of it sounded harsh) Maybe take some time to think about this....

Hi Bella,

Your message to Jude struck a chord with me as that is what I had been doing for the last two weeks & you are SO right. I feel a little that if I don't quit for good this time than what you said above will be my life. Patch, stop, start. Patch, stop, start. It's giving me a bit more motivation to get through today

Love Gaynor xx

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I know, Iknow....:rolleyes:

I didn't really think about it to be honest. It really shocked me to hear that.

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No smoking today, and I know what your sayng is true. I just wonder if i will smoke as he sacks me:rolleyes:

One other woman has put in a formal complaint against him, so I think i'll have to do the same, otherwise he just going to carry on.