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missing you barb.. come back

hi everyone,

hope your all well. been another lovely day. can't get enough of the sun i

love it, still not smoking and feeling good about it, just been reading the

debate about Barb and i think she should come back to month 3.....

after all she done so well up to now, this could be any one of us in this

position, its not easy giving up smoking especially when we been doing it for

many years, lets not be hard on Barb. I WANT HER BACK ON MY TEAM:D

im waiting for you Barb, take care all

Alan;)

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Alan your such a kind and supportive quit friend.

I will join you back in month 3.

Thanks Alan.

And a big thank you to everyone else who has supported me.

Barb x

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Awww Well done Barb. You belong here with your great team mate Alan :D

You sure sound a great bloke Alan. A lovely post by you. Hope you're doing just dandy on this fine eve :)

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Barb & Alan you two stick together well done both.

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Well done you two! :D

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Thanks guys

Linda have you any storms.

I am petrified of thunder and we have been getting loads for the past hour.

I`m sitting here with earplugs and pounding music.

Barb x

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Hi Barb

Same with me hate them but all carm here so far.

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You belong here

Well not really Maddy!

How does she "belong" here?

Barb smoked for TWO days this week and has admitted smoking previously in this "three month" quit.

Logically, morally, any way she is in week one and nearly two months away from entering month three.

If everybody here wants to play good guy and say it doesn't matter - so be it - but we all know (and more importantly so does barb) that it does matter.

Barb I genuinely wish you luck in this quit - wherever you place yourself on the timeline.

I'm very sorry to be so negative and will no doubt get many an angry reply - however lets play fair by all the other posters on here who have had the decency to admit to their mistakes and started afresh

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Well not really Maddy!

How does she "belong" here?

Barb smoked for TWO days this week and has admitted smoking previously in this "three month" quit.

Logically, morally, any way she is in week one and nearly two months away from entering month three.

If everybody here wants to play good guy and say it doesn't matter - so be it - but we all know (and more importantly so does barb) that it does matter.

Barb I genuinely wish you luck in this quit - wherever you place yourself on the timeline.

I'm very sorry to be so negative and will no doubt get many an angry reply - however lets play fair by all the other posters on here who have had the decency to admit to their mistakes and started afresh

Don`t be sorry about being negative, as i have said before everyone is entitled to their opinions,and everyone makes a valid point.

I know i smoked for 2 days which was 5 a day and had a puff before but i feel i belong with Alan.

Barb x

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Hi UE`s

Thanks for your support.I could have not said anything and no-one would have been the wiser, but i`m honest and owed it to Alan.

Hope you are well.

Barb;)

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Fully agree You do what is best for you and your quit Barb. Linda xxx

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My Gawd! I can't believe some people on thuis forum can even pick an argument over a bloody VIRTUAL room!!!!!!!:eek:

The rooms are not real folks, it's a FORUM, yeah????:confused:

Barb, be where you want to be......if you move into the Penthouse, then who is going to evict you? Eh? Eh? :rolleyes:

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If I have appeared bossy or trying to tell Barb what to do then I only come across that way because I think its a shame for barb to go back to day one when she has gone over two months smoke free. I agree with everyone else that this is BARB'S quit and she should do as she feels comfortable with.

At the end of the day, what is a few fags compared to the rest of a smoke free life? In my eyes it isn't anything to batter an eyelid about. But thats just my opinion. I'm normally a fairly easy going person (shut it) and like to see the good instead of the bad. In the grand scheme of things, it doesn't matter about the few fags. Its not like it affects our quits and after a few months have elapsed from now those few fags are gonna seem like sod all!

So, well done Barb and here's to another 9 weeks :D

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firstly this is not an angry reply as its hardly worth the effort. If barb and alan are happy to support each other then so what - if barb keeps having smoking days then im sure she will go away and get her head together then come back when she is ready, does it really matter what virtual room we are in? barb & alan know where she is with her quit and thats all that matters really.

I think the purpose of this site is for support:rolleyes:

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Yes on the scheme of things does it matter what room you post in?

The fact is she jumped straight back into a quit after two days which was very brave considering. There are people who still smoke and come into this forum so what's the big deal?

I'm just glad another one is back on the wagon.

Congratulations Barb ;)

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Well said!!!

Barb did really well to come back on there so soon after smoking, it took me 18 months to get back on the quit wagon!!

W E L L D O N E B A R B!

:):):)

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Yes, again, well said. Who the hell cares what room we post from? We're all quit so sod it.

Well done everyone on their successful quits :D

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For all i know you lot are just on this forum to wind me up and i am the only genuine quitter :D the rest just a bunch of actors set up to test me. (cue twighlight zone tune).......

........but i know thats not true.

Dayum! We're all busted guys!

Now lets just scoot all our asses out of here and leave John 'be' on his own. He can have this whole forum to himself now :p

Have fun making up multiple IDs to talk to yourself with won't you? :D

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Dayum! We're all busted guys!

Now lets just scoot all our asses out of here and leave John 'be' on his own. He can have this whole forum to himself now :p

Have fun making up multiple IDs to talk to yourself with won't you? :D

O my - I fink there may be anuvver foight coming on.:eek:

With regard to rooms in the words of a song "A house is not a home, a home is not a room less there's someone there" - or something like.:D

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O my - I fink there may be anuvver foight coming on.:eek:

if there is , im away with Gary! :(

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"A house is not a home, a home is not a room less there's someone there"

I think Jans been drinking again....;)

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if there is , im away with Gary! :(

*starts a fight*

joke!!!!:p

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sobs............

*packing case*

sobs......sobs......sobs......

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Please don't all go. What will I do for my entertainment. I come on as a guest every day (I don't trust myself to be logged on because I can be a bit fiery) and it is better than any soap/serial.!!

:cool:

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I think Jans been drinking again....;)

How very dare you - not a drop has passed my lips, yet.:rolleyes:

Come back tomorrow. It's POETS day I might just have had a tipple before going home.:D;)

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sobs............

*packing case*

sobs......sobs......sobs......

Now look what you've done Cword - are you wanting a foight too. If not stop picking on my friend:(

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