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How would you feel if ur partner went out at 9 and came bk at 4 and it was ur birthday could of made plans with my friends but nope he done it again , I livid tbh i can't do right from wrong here and told him I feel like his maid and cancel tonight as our relationship is fake not even love from on my card ahhhhhh

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I would feel angry and hurt and taken for a mug, just like you seem to do.

I don't know what to say about how you use the rest of your day and whether you want to blow it by not going out this evening. It depends on whether you could enjoy it or not, and only you will know that. What will you do if you don't go out? Could you go round to friends, or go out with friends?

And I'd need more than words to put it right. I'd want real evidence that I wasn't being taken for granted.

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That's how I feel he sat in silence and said whatever he does is wrong the last few weeks have been so horrid and I have ended up on anti depressant I think cos of him I got enough worry with parents and my health and he does this today , I ain't going out hope he has cancelled his friends as they were staying if not I will just stay in , I making he move bk home tomo need space and tough I think my cat I'll cos of him stress and we better off away from here

Will celebrate another day sod it , bought myself a bottle of prosecco will open in a minute and say cheers to myself 😊😊😊

Could of seen friends but as always he just leaves me and I don't end up doing anything

Stupid me but things are about to change no maid anymore I told him that and moving forward I hope

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Sometimes we learn the hard way, and it takes time to see things for what they are.

You deserve better. Take what steps you need and take care of yourself :)

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Thank you thank goodness I got this siteb

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Oh, poor you. I would feel sad and hurt...My advice would be: Don’t run away from your feelings. Take your time, surround yourself with people who love you and have a good think...You will be okay .You are stronger than you think.x

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Yes I sure am strong just dried my hair but going to just sit here and watch tv , not going out with his friends when it's all fake unsure whether he cancelled them as they were due to stay but I know there relationship isn't that strong so I keeping away from it if I hadn't of had one beer I would of escaped to my home not lived there since September and I cannot wait to go bk

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Hi so sorry your Birthday is spoilt, I suppose only you knows how much bad treatment you want to put up with? Think of yourself and do what makes you happy !

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Yes life has been cruel last few weeks hey ho I am strong, worthy and living that's all I can say right now x

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He got all the answers he needs I am very selfish not going out so there u go end of an era hey ho

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He is going out tho lol happy days and they are coming here I will just stay upstairs

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Oh no thatll be awful for you! X

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It will but needs to happen it's okay I just stay in and I will pack

First thing in morning and go bk to my sanctuary x

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What about going to your sanctuary tonight ? X

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Don't you have any other options? Do you have any friends in the area?

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They all busy with there kids no he likes it this way as I haven't made any plans will stay in and celebrate next weekend sod him

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I would be upset too 😒 and furious 😀 your birthday is only once a year, if he's not going to make an effort, you're right to question whether he deserves you. It sounds like you deserve more 😊

Enjoy your prosecco πŸ₯‚ and the company of your cat πŸ™€ and hope you can sort it out tomorrow.

And Happy Birthday πŸŽ‚ πŸŽ‰ πŸ’ πŸ₯‚ 🌸 🎢 🎈🍾🍰 to you 😁

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Thank you very much yes just wanna break down and cry did to my mum in phone bless her had such an awful couple

Of weeks too and this just tops it off hey ho x

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It's good to let it out 😊 nice birthday girl badge πŸ“› you have 😊

Hope you can have a good evening & make plans for next weekend - all is not lost πŸ˜Šβ˜•πŸ“Ί πŸ™€

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Some of us gentlemen do deserve our partners (not sure if I always qualified).

I don't know if my father ever remembered my mother's birthday - but he would frequently get home at 21:00 having not rung to tell my mother that he was having supper out!

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Take care of yourself. You deserve love and respect. I wish you a happy birthday. Sending you loving positive thoughts.

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I'd be fizzing ,

Happy Birthday.

Gary

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Sorry to hear this Miss is. My marriage was a bit like that. It is very hard. I had no were to go so I had to stay. You do what you need to do. See some friends next weekend s a good idea. So you take care of yourself and I wish you a happy birthday. 😊😊

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Happy birthday Misscic you deserve better treatment. Enjoy the prosseco

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I hope that having a rant here helps prevents you taking desperate measures.

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Yes it did really feel like I have a family on here 😊

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I feel for you. Sometimes we know that a relationship isn’t working but we hang on in there, I’ve been in your position. Then something happens that is a catalyst and you know that’s the end of it. I think this may be that time for you. Only you will know when it’s time, took me a while for sure. Good luck to you for the rest of your (improved) life. Happy birthday, next years will be better I’m sure.

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Happy birthday.

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Happy Birthday Missclc - you deserve to feel loved and special, and I'm glad you are taking steps to take care of yourself.

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Hello

And a happy birthday πŸ₯³ enjoy your wine and do what you need to do tomorrow, be strong my lovely only you know what is best for you but I wish you good luck whatever you choose to do ,

Will be thinking of you xxx

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