Ok. I'm new to this site. First time to post. Wanted a little love to come my way. Had a horrible doctors appoint today. Didn't even want to go, because I have gained weight, but knew I had to. She told me my weight is out of control and that I have to have an honest conversation with myself and to stop making excuses. She asked me why did I gain my weight back? I said, if I knew, I'd be a millionaire! She's told me, you must know. You need to get honest with yourself. She asked me about exercise. I told her I am soooo exhausted after work. I walk a minimum of 10,000 steps a day. I also have fibromyalgia and autoimmune thyroid. She informed me that EVERYONE is tired after work. I can still exercise on a treadmill. To stop making excuses. She said I need to see a dietician. She also informed me, that I will have to have a joint replacement and who will care for me? I won't recover. (By the way, it's my gynecologist I was seeing) She also told me because of my weight, I have a 40% higher chance of getting uterine cancer and breast cancer. I was so beyond humiliated. I already struggle with self esteem and have passed on outings with friends because I have to remember what I weighed the last time I saw the group of people in question. I am 50 now and my life is passing me by. I am so beyond sad. Feel like just giving up.