I did it

People get jealous. They also see a change in you for the better and you are moving out of THEIR comfort zone. They will do their best to keep you in that place. Last time I lost weigt in was accused of being anorexic and apparently I would now be after other people's husbands.

Pathetic, the lot of them. You do whats right for you, they will just have to wear it😊

It could be that your success at losing weight is drawing attention to their own inability to take control and get fit, so they are trying to "trip you up" so that they won't feel so bad about not doing it too!

Alternatively, they might actually be concerned that you are going to extremes, and that you have become too obsessed...? It takes time for people to accept drastic changes in others - folks like what they are used to, and it can be a bit of a shock for them to have to accept a person they thought of as a bit of a cuddly softie to suddenly see them in a new light; assertive, confident and in control of their lives.

Give them time, they will get used to the new you. Accept that it is their problem (as you have said), and stay cheerful, friendly but make some new friends too, so then their opinions won't matter so much.

I also got told

Neglecting husband and my 2 adult children let alone the housework. My gym classes are in the evening after everyone is fed, watered and all housework is done. Silly how people feel free to say the worse about you but can't be vice versa.

Well done you. Standing up to bullying behaviour usually stops it in my experience. Sibling relations can be very weird. My sister scarcely talks to me now because I wouldn't let her make my family problems (breast cancer and a trans gender child) all about her and let her post all about them on social media.

Ha ha is that ironic? But I do see posting anonymously in a closed forum as a bit different. (Fleur is not my earth name).

Are they overweight themselves, by any chance? People generally don't like change, and seeing someone else achieve something (like weight loss) which perhaps they have tried at and failed, or can't motivate themselves to do, just makes them more aware of their own shortcomings.

This is probably what's behind the nasty comments - best just to feel sorry for them, and keep going on your regime.

You're doing great. It's not acceptable to be obese, it's just more common than it used to be for very many reasons. You're on the right track and you don't need negativity from those close to you. Believe in your yourself. You're worth it. Don't let them get you down and you'll soon be the weight you want.

Ginnybw

Focus on your own health and wellbeing.

Maybe steer clear of people who are not supporting you for a while and get yourself surrounded by positive people.

You are doing well, keep going!