I've had enough of cringing every time I see a photo of myself! I want to be slim and healthy but not follow a rigid diet, just something I can live with!! I play golf a few times a week but other than that don't do much exercise. I have a partner who 'sabotages' my healthy eating plans by encouraging me to go out for curries drink wine etc. But he's slim!! And my will power is not the best! Need some encouragement and tips!!!