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Feeling so rubbish

Hi everyone,

Got to a point where no matter how much I push myself at the gym, put the steps in and keep to my cals everything just stopped even my tummy not moving been 36in for months.

I went to get some new tops today found nothing tried afew things on but each time they may have looked good on but I knew what was underneath was still not good.

Even though I have gone from size 18/16 bottom and 14 to a 12 top lost over 1 1/2 stone I still feel big cause I see the fat wobbly tummy.

Not giving up just need to work harder. Maybe stop looking at myself hass big, screaming inside.


Good luck


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hurdles suck. you've done SO amazing. i dont know you but im uber proud of you. Just remember you CAN do this, and you ARE doing this. i know you dont feel great but i think you're fab x


Hi Wendy,

Hold on to the fact that your tops did look good on you today - regardless of how you're perceiving you look 'underneath' the top, your shape wearing the top obviously does look good - that's so great! I think we are often our own worst critics, and I really hope that you can feel better about how you look underneath the top as time goes on. You're doing so well - you've lost over one and a half stones, and your clothes size has reduced too.

Glad to hear you're not giving up, as you've made great progress.

Hope you enjoy the weekend.

Lowcal :-)


Me before


How do you add another photo?

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I think you need to do a new post to do that - I don't think you can add more than one photo to any one post, unless you can create one that has sections within it.

It's a lovely photo - your before one. Maybe do a new post and then edit this one to include a link so people can click on the other photo?


Hi, you've done really well, don't be disheartened or unhappy with yourself, you look great on the 'after' photo, have you tried some gentle excercise a to tone your tum a bit? I've got a feeling I will have to as well as lose the weight.

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Please don't beat yourself up , you will be fine.


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