So angry at my son in law, who we have always considered our 2nd son and helped him through so many problems/cancer too and what does he do?? Just before Christmas left my daughter and grandchildren and now living with a work colleague with children younger than his own. Went to solicitor with my daughter yesterday as he has already dropped money down he was giving her and it seems even though he left the marital home he is sitting high and fine in all ways!!! My daughter has to be the one to take action and if he doesn't agree to mediation then its the courts. What has really got to me today is my hubby and I drove past the house he shares with the "home wrecker" and his car was outside. Nice modern house whilst he left his own old house in a mess. Think it brought it home to the both of us, hubby obviously upset by shouting at me whilst I stuffed my face with chocolate bars today and G&T's with crisps last night. Its just not fair-I'm taking it out on myself when I want to give him a mouthful and smack him and her so hard. Needed to put this down in writing as it was eating away at me, its no good trying to talk to my hubby because he just doesn't/can't do that sort of thing. I was doing my ironing and thoughts/emotions were just going around in my head, made myself a choc drink to pacify urge to start picking again and then decided to write on here. Glad I did, feel better now, don't feel so bad now. Sorry to have used this page to get this out of my system but if I hadn't I'd probably have kept pigging out.