Trying for our second baby. Disheartened this morning at realising this month again is not the month for us. So decided Instead of feeling low that actually we want to concentrate on feeling the fittest and healthiest we can before we have another child. I kept about a stone on after having my son who is now 2!! And I'm now bmi 31.1, if I fell pregnant now I know I would struggle to keep my weight down and lose it after. As well as it not being good for the baby.....so I'm joining you all, my first time on here....so I'm very excited!