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ive been in hospital for a few days now and heartbreakingly ive lost my little munchkin. The hospitals been so supportive and so has everyone that knew my other half is gutted along with myself he wont leave the hospital cause he doesnt want me to feel alone. R.i.p my little darling mummy and daddy love you always<3

Hope everyones doing well and i wish you all well in your pregnancys and births.

Lots of love hannah & martin xx

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Kaleidoscope

Oh Hannah & Martin,

Thinking of you both at this very sad time. My deepest condolences. So very sorry to hear this. :(

in reply to Kaleidoscope

Thankyou darling :( its heartbreaking my 2nd miscarriage absolutely gutted :(

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Skyblueboston

Oh no Hun, I knew how much this baby meant to you both, I'm so sorry. I hope you both have lots of support. Take care xxxxx

in reply to Skyblueboston

it ment so much to me everything started to look up and now my lifes just crashing down on me:( we have loads on support take care darling xxxxx

hun I am soo sorry to hear about ur loss, I know how excited u were. It WILL happen one day!! I hope ur both able to tlk to somebody!! please take care xx

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:( we were both extatic hes staying with me for a few days i get out of hospital on sunday or monday as ive lost alot of blood. Yeah we both do we will thankyou xxxx

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Kaley in reply to

So sorry to read your sad news. It sounds like Martin is a big support to you and I'm really glad that you have that. Take care of yourselves xx

in reply to Kaley

The way i see it is things happen for a reason maybe its a way of my body telling me i wasnt ready:/ yeah he is hes amazing:) yeah will do xxxc

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DrFluffy

Oh Petal - I am so sorry. Heartbreaking, I know how much you wanted it. Thinking of you. Big hugs xxxx

in reply to DrFluffy

Thankyou darling it is indeed:( yeah theres always more chances though<3 thanks again xxx

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GabrielleL

My heart goes out to you both, words can't really express can they.

All I can say is my thoughts and all of my best wishes are with you

Xxxx

in reply to GabrielleL

Thankyou petal, its been tough on both of us xxxx

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mumofone2009

I am so sorry to here your sad news my heart goes out to you both no words can describe what you are both going through. one day you will have a lovely precious bundle to hold take care x

in reply to mumofone2009

Thankyou hunny its absolutely heartbreaking. I hope i do sometime soon i was looking forward to seeing my munchkin on the scan in a week and a half but ohwell :( ccc

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Clairew7

Oh I am so very sorry to hear that news, I can't even begin to imagine how you must both feel, it sounds like you have a very strong relationship and as others have said I am sure your time will come. Big hugs Cx

in reply to Clairew7

Thankyou sweety, its impossible to express how hearybreaking it it feels like my hearts been ripped from my chest :( yeah we do cant wait to just get home and snuggle up on the sofa:( yeah it will big cuddles xx

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ashy2005

Oh no :( sorry to hear this :( having experienced 2 miscarriages myself I know how you are feeling :( rest, take care of yourself and don't give up hope..

Wishing you all the best in the future xxx

Thankyou petal, sorry for your loses:( this is my 2nd misscarriage i misscarried at 14 and now at 17 im resting wrll martin wont let me do anything without his help i wont give up hope:) thankyou hunny hope your doing well xxxx

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Neska

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss.My heart goes out to you hun.i cant even imagine how you feel.i wish you all the best for the future and dont give up xx

in reply to Neska

Thankyou sweety oh me and martin eill get through it and thankyou we wont xxx

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Allyemo1985

My thoughts are with you Hun such sad news x

in reply to Allyemo1985

Thankyou sweety x

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mara3

I am very sorry for you, I had miscarriage last Thursday too, it's heartbreaking, I am so sad...I really loved the small one...Take care of you hun, all the best for the future x

in reply to mara3

So sorry for your loss darling. All the best for the future x

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gingerbaby

Sorry to hear that, that is a shame, funny how they burrow so deep in to our hearts before they even arrive. Thoughts are with you and your partner. Hugs xxxx

in reply to gingerbaby

Thankyou petal. Yeah its amazing tbh. Hugs xxx

Oh sweetie I'm ever so saddened by your news. I really hope you are ok, and as everyone says, stay positive as it will happen one day. Thinking of you both, and prayers for little one xxx

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Yeah were both okay theyve had to keep me in for another few days as ive been very ill. Yeah it willl! Thankyou xxxx

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matildarose in reply to

Am so sorry for your loss. I am still getting over mine too!

I do find that each day does get abit easier. Even though in the early days, that is so hard to believe, but you will both get there. Take care and all the best.

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cheekymonkey3791

Hey Hannah, I am so so sorry to hear your sad news, I understand what you are going through as I have experienced it twice and the grief of loosing a baby in pregnancy is a very lonely one. You would have heard this before but time is a healer and don't feel bad/guilty, take as much time as you need to heal physically and then emotionally. Despite my current pregnancy I still have moments where I am over whelmed with grief over my loss in September, I think more so at the moment as my would be due date is approaching, I cried and cried yesterday when i got in from work, but its good to release and then you pick yourself up again.

We are all here if you want to talk, maybe write a blog and exercise your feelings and thoughts without restriction that you have with friends and family, we all know your partner is grieving too and he is doing his best to support you I am sure.

I wish you a speedy recovery out of hospital to get home to your comforts. Take Care XXX

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